There is mutual attraction between the two of us. I don't like the fact that I love him so much. He's not looking for a relationship with anyone because he's still hurt from his last relationship. Which was several years ago. But he wants to spend time with me laughing, crying, eating. There's no sex because I'm saving myself for marriage and I told him after he had started touching my legs. Now I want to have physical contact but only if he wants to. There are times where we both are looking into each other's eyes and we're really close... but one of us will turn our head at some point. I just want to know is he flat out uninterested or is he just waiting for me to be show my vulnerable self so he can swoop in for the kill?
Most Helpful Guy
You're aren't friends with benefits because there's no sex so you're just friends. If a guy says he doesn't want a relationship then he truly means it. There's only sexual attraction from his side and nothing more than that, otherwise he'd make an exception to you and date you. He wants sex and no commitment, you want no sex and commitment. You two just aren't compatible, forcing the issue will only lead you to being hurt in the end.1
Most Helpful Girl
Nope, since you do not have sex with each other. Do you kiss?0