i am also have been told that I am the sweetest person ever and I'm pretty funny. I'm compassionate and caring but I'm also lazy, weird, can be gross, somewhat clingy, EXTREMLY insecure, and annoying. Also I'm obviously a Virgin lol and I plan on staying one until I'm married, not only because of my religion and to be safe, but also because even though I probably haven't met him yet I already love him and care for him so in a way I want to give him something I've never given anyone. I want him to know how special he is to me and how much he means to me. I know it's stupid but that's how I feel lol. So would you consider dating me?
sorry this was so long but thank for reading it 🙂
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Wow I'm impressed by your description, and how you describe why you want to wait. So few people even want to try now. I also know what it is like to be looked at like you have two heads. I'm sure your quite pretty and that sadly might be part of your problem. Guys might be hesitant to approach you cause your out of their league. So you probably will have to get to know some guys before one will realize that your just normal foke and will take a chance asking you out.
To answer your question yes, and along with CP I do have several freinds that are my age and with one of them. I was the first to ask her out after knowing her for a year. After reading your question heck I'd definitely try to get to know you. Maybe if things worked out and we got along well. I might have asked you out hypothetically.
Being very shy is hard and it is hard to get to know people. Especially when you missed a chance to be introduced and you feel nervous to even say hi cause you don't know them and you have not been introduced to each other.
You sound like a great girl who has had trouble finding a guy. Like CP said I have been learning to be less shy slowly but it takes time and effort. I suggest getting into a small group where you feel safe. Like a small hobby group, or a young adult church group. Where there are single men there for you. Make a freind and if you need to lean on them. Slowly start pushing yourself to meet new people in it. Confidence is a social skill that no one really teaches. The best way I can describe it is when your stop focusing on yourself, what people think of you, how you look, what they will think if you do this or that. Instead focus outwardly. How are they reacting to me, what can I say to drive the conversation, will I enjoy putting on this silly hat and being the center of attention for a bit. Will that horrify me to much for me to do?
If you want to chat more I would be happy to talk with you and give you advice.
I'd also like to ask you a few questions as a shy girl and get your valued incite and advice. If you want to chat just follow me and I'll just use that to message you. Since your anonymous unless you want to tell me your username that is the easiest way to stay anonymous to the others on this question.
Thanks for the intro CP. But did you really have to tell her that I never finished a date? Contrary to what CP thinks I do just want to get to know the girl. After I get to know her a bit then I'll decide if I want to try and ask her out.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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