okay so this guy who i started out being really good friends with & i recently started becoming more serious & he literally treats me so good but i'm 5'7 &3/4, & he's 5'7. i know it seems sooo small & like nothing but to me it's sooo noticeable. do you think it's weird/would you judge a couple for the girlfriend being a little taller? i swear i'm not shallow but it just bothers me
Most Helpful Guy
"he literally treats me so good but i'm 5'7 &3/4, & he's 5'7," and that's a problem? How?
" do you think it's weird/would you judge a couple for the girlfriend being a little taller?" You clearly don't feel it paints you in a good light to date someone shorter.
"i know it seems sooo small & like nothing but to me it's sooo noticeable," wtf? You clearly "don't know" because you are bringing it up.
Verdict? Do both him and yourself a favour and don't pursuit anything further with him. This guy doesn't deserve a girl who has doubts in her mind because of his height. Because of your own insecurities, you will be constantly be comparing him to every tall, attractive guy you meet. You will be likely to be thinking "what if?"
What guy would want to go out with a girl who thinks he is not good enough for her?
Shallow? Maybe but if you found him attractive enough, you wouldn't be thinking these things. Just let him go.1
Most Helpful Girl
Nah I wouldn't judge. Height doesn't define who the person is on the inside.2