my boyfriend tells me he loves me, but i don't believe him, simply because he doesn't show it. Like he makes no time for me, he never bought something for me. like NEVER. not even a candy bar. like, what the heck? Although, we work different hours at work. like when I'm working he is sleeping and when I'm sleeping his working. but i feel like he can make the time to talk to me., just like i make the time to talj to him sometimes... and spending 30 minutes on the phone is like a miracle. im not use to this kind of "love". am I over reacting? please tell me.
Most Helpful Guy
You are not over reacting.. it's natural.. you want time which he does not seem to have for you.. it's always kind of mutual to have a relationship maintained.. bc saying I love you is the easiest thing.. but maintaining is equally difficult..1
Most Helpful Girl
Nope your not overreacting. a lot of men, not all but some it comfortable in a relationship after awhile they feel like they dont have to keep working to keep u around versus in the beginning. If a guy doesn't show me the attention that I need, I would be upset and feel the same way as you and bring it to his attention that we need to communicate more0