Most Helpful Girl
When they claim that being a nice guy is the reason women don't like them because we all like jerks.
Bitch no, we just like men that don't think holding a door open and kissing my ass entitled them to anything. Be a multidimensional person.46THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Guy
I don't like to generalize in any way but there are some issues I encounter when I'm getting close to a woman romantically. Granted, I don't always make the best choices when it comes to this stuff either. Anyway, in my experience I've come across quite a few women who have a laundry list of expectations for me simply due to my gender. I, on the other hand, don't do that with any women I date. I don't have gender roles or expectations for women at all. I believe in complete equality when it comes to this. We can both lean on each other, take each other on dates, support the other if they're having a tough time, etc. Despite this, I seem to get close to women who embrace this double standard. It's okay to have expectations for me as a man but it would be an outrage for me to do the same (not that I ever would). This causes a lot of resentment on my side because I just want to be treated the way I treat her. That and I like to give a lot and I get annoyed with people who just get comfortable taking.
It kind of makes me wary about pursuing relationships to be honest. It makes me more comfortable just being a lone wolf. I know I can always achieve the expectations I put on myself. I haven't closed the door on them but it's something I don't actively pursue. If something good comes my way sure I'll consider it. I need to have a better selection process lol8THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE