So, my boyfriend and I both wanna get married. But here's the catch, we aren't old enough and are still in high school. We've discussed a promise ring, but I don't know what else to do. I feel the thing with the most common sense is just to stay dating til we can get married. But I want to make it clear, that we want to get married. So how would I go about doing so?
Most Helpful Guy
What I would say is defiantly WAIT, stuff could happen before then to break up and get angry plus you can't get married until high schools over so what would be the point? You can't show that much affection until you're married and their is no point because you need to know this is something really serious and should be taken serious as someone you marry is someone you will be spending your whole life with! Wait!!0
Most Helpful Girl
Nuh uh, nopity nope nope. you realise that high school lovers turned husband and wife relationships are more likely to divorce right? you're brain isn't fully developed, you're not even an adult. your frontal cortex is won't be full developed until you're like 25, take this shit slowly. marriages mean money, aka you need a steady job, you're gonna need a house or apartment, aka more money and the fact that you've barely been through any real relationship struggles for the fact that you're in high school. chances are, you won't work out. wait until you're out of college and get a job and you can be financially and emotionally stable.1