Hello. I dont know what to do!! My boyfriend ask me for space and his exact words were '' Don't start making problems. Grow up ur mind. And we need time from each other to think good and recognize stuff. U do good and think good''. He sent me this after having a lot of arguments recently. It has been 9 days today and i sent him and email two days ago and he did not respond to me. I know this is not about seeing someone else or cheating. I am trying to respect him but i am scare that he is using this as an excuse to dissapear from my life. Since he always answers to my emails. We have been 3 years together and we are from different cultures. Sometimes we dont understand each other because we are from different cultures but since i am mix learn how to understand each other and have patience. I am 23 and he is 25 . For us is out first relationship but now since 8 months we are in long distance. we have problems of trust. He does not trust me because I lie to him about big things and he does not trust me anymore but we love each other a lot. I try to show him i change but he is sturborn and he does not let me show him i am change. Sometimes when he gets mad he stops talking and then he talks back after 3 o 4 days. He has temperament. He is not a great talker. He does not like to tell his problems or what is in his mind. He keeps things inside him. I am an introvert too but with him im more open. He is also a overthinker and studborn. Also i think he is stress with his life but I always try to help him. What I should do? I do not want to lose him! He is the one i want forever Thanks!
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Why did you lie to him with big things?
Well honey, there's not much you can do. If he wants space, you should give it to him or else he could feel annoyed. Having a long distance relationship is hard, specially if he tends to shut his feelings. Not a lot of people have a nack for it. You shouldn't carry all the weight on your shoulders, though. You are admitting that you've made mistakes, like lying to him, but a relationship involves two people, so if he wasn't it to work too he's going to have to get out of his shell and comunicate. If you have change, then show him with actions, not speeches. Be patient and confident, show him that you love him and that you are committed :)1