okay, so i find us making a lot of eye contact, and we laugh a lot.. he's really nice to me and one time i got out of the car and little piece of my underwear line was visible when someone made a comment about it he laughed and said he didn't mind... also his dad had said "woah who is she and he said oh, thats (my name) , thats my buddies girl. over all i just get these different vibes from him. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years we have been through a good bit together but i dont feel the same and i am over the constant arguing. im not happy. and everytime i see his friend i am happy, and i see so many good qualities in him and i wanna be with him in the worst way. but the other issue here, when i first got with my boyfriend i hooked his friend up with a friend of mine who i dont talk to anymore and cheats on him and treats him bad. i want to tell him how i feel about him but i dont know how to go about doing it. am i wrong? how do i go about doing this? does it seem like his friend is kinda crushing to or? to be real with myself i have always had a crush on him, when i first moved to this state i seen his friend on social media before i did him and i always wanted to talk to him but was to scared until i got to know him and seen how great he is... good idea or bad idea to tell him about my feelings? should i tell my boyfriend my feelings? what do i do?
- tell him my feelings, go with my heartVote A
- leave it be for the sake of their friendshipVote B
- other opinions on how to tell them both how i feelVote C
Most Helpful Guy
First off you should break up with your boyfriend. Your not happy and you are looking at other guys, his best friend.
I usually say follow your heart, but not really for "homie hoppin" especially since you had a chance with him before hand and didn't take it and then hooked him up with your friends despite your crush you had on him before.
As of right now I think you should keep it friendly. You have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. You interfering with that makes you a homewrecker. If he is unhappy or is treated bad it's up to him to leave not you drive a wedge between them.0
Most Helpful Girl
Probably Crushing on you Here, dear.
Leave this alone. You have a Boyfriend. This guy is His Best friend. Don't lead him on to Believe you have any Feeling, this is a raw sort of Dealing.
Think of it if this was You on the other End, my Friend. You are just Crushing and Mushing yourself.
Good Luck. xx1