My boyfriend is still friends with his ex. I cannot stand it anymore. When his other friends say something mean to me, he fights for me, even though I tell him not to. But when his ex says something he says that its none of his business. and for some reason I'm the one who is always getting blamed. I don't know why I can't break up with him though. I'm just angry and miserable. I need help...
How can I get him to stop talking with his ex?
What Guys Said 13
You can't make him do anything. You can only tell him how you feel, and if he doesn't change his behavior, then you can accept it or end the relationship. If he's blaming you for things that aren't your fault, then he's crazy, and you should definitely break up with him.0
Tell him that it is very bothersome to you and IF he chooses to NOT change, inform him that he WILL be cut off until he cooperates with THIS request. And DO IT!0
Leave them to each other. There will always be chemistry and on a weak day their higher thought process will not supress the base human urge.0
You are jealous of her.
Maybe with good reason, maybe without.
I'd bet on the latter, lol0
You don't that's the thing0
If he can't leave his ex alone- maybe there's more to it than meets the eye. Dump him. x1
Don't tell a man what to do, you will push him away instead0
Call him on it and if he doesn't change leave
What Girls Said 6
I'd be extremely mad if I were you as well. You should either accept the fact that they are talking or you should move on. You have already discuss it with him and he is not willing to listen. Either make him choose, or break up, or start talking to your ex as well in order to give him a taste of his own poison (terrible advice, but I'd do it).0
You can't MAKE him do or not do anything, you can only decide whether you're willing to put up with it or not.0
Tell him if he can't respect ur decision of him not talking to his ex then he can't be with u anymore. It's not worth it.0
You need to tell him how much it bothers you and if you meant something to him, he would respect your relationship and stop talking to her.0
Become a Spartan woman, alpha bitch, and get in touch with your feminine grace and power. Leave his ass! You are the prize. His friends disrespecting you and him still being friends with the ex means he has no respect for you. He teaches his friends how to treat you by what he tells them. Same with the ex. And you get blamed for what? That is your cue this son of a bitch doesn't and will not respect you bc you haven't respected yourself to leave. Get some self love, that's all you need, not him! But if you want him to stay, self love first, Spartan up, and teach him with your actions how he needs to treat you.0
tell him u don't like it0
Select as Most Helpful Opinion?
You cannot undo this action. The opinion owner is going to be notified and earn 7 XPER points.