My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years. When we were just dating everything was amazing. Once we became official, things were not so amazing. He was distant and always on his phone. Looooooong story short we worked out all our problems and have been amazing. Well fast forward to now and we are back at that point. He's not affectionate ever, I had to go to the hospital cause of a work related incident and he wouldn't take me. He kept saying he didn't know why I was so hurt, how did I get that badly injured? And he kept leaving the room then coming back, when I brought up still wanting to go he left again etc. So my sister ended up taking me. He was married at one point and has full custody of their child. She cheated on him and left him. I feel like maybe she left him too cold-hearted and maybe I should just end it. But I love him and his child and hate the thought of it. I don't know what to do. He's always been stand offish and when it comes to me if it doesn't fit into his schedule he doesn't bother doing it. I'm just tired of feeling hurt and like nothing more than a babysitter and sex object to him.
Most Helpful Guy
dating is always ausm bt things change may be ur boyfriend is busy because he dont want u n his child to be happy... every one is busy... giving up is never a gud decision if u feel like giving up think why u started then... every relationship have problems but we dont end up every time... it happens that the husbands become busy and start living tensed after marriage because of lot of responsibility they get also some time because they feel bounded because they no more can enjoy their bachelor life... try to understand what actually is wrong with him talk to him... go out... try new things... n remember to win a relationship u should be a loser0
Most Helpful Girl
"He's always been stand offish and when it comes to me if it doesn't fit into his schedule he doesn't bother doing it."
You should leave him. You cannot fix him.0