Most Helpful Guy
If you find a great guy, you'd be an idiot to pass him up. Finding someone you get along with, feel attracted to, and who you know loves you for you and is willing to put in all the effort for you and be loyal is incredibly hard to find. Some people search for that their entire life with no luck, so why chance it?
I tell you what, when I was 18 I met this girl that completely blew me away, you know, fireworks. It took 8 years to find another girl that even came close to that previous girl. Finding someone like that is rarer than most people lead on. The large majority of people settle, most don't get to live happily ever after with that 1 person who blew them away. So why let a person like that go if you find her/him?1
Most Helpful Girl
Well, OP the first thing I would do if I were you would be to stop pretending to be a girl on the internet :)0