Break up with him for no reason? Well, we have 9 months behind us and things are going perfectly. But I just couldn't study with so much emotional baggage. He's currently deployed but I don't feel it's right to break it over to him on the phone.
- Yes. It will hurt him deeply.Vote A
- No it wouldn't.Vote B
- Other.Vote C
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Ya it's gonna hurt but you should discuss how you feel and your reasoning before breaking up with the poor guy. If he's deployed into an active war zone, the emotional distraction of you just suddenly breaking up with him might get him killed. For his sake, at least tell him what you've been thinking and give him a day or two to prepare himself mentally if you do decide to break up with him. Believe it or not, men do have feelings and we can feel heartbreak. Not to mention the stress of being deployed.2