I met a guy through a mutual friend of mine and we immediately hit it off. It wasn't a set up, we just happened to be at the same bar at the same time and met. We've been talking every day since then and have hung out a few times with friends and alone. It honestly feels like we've known each other forever and have amazing chemistry. We get along so well and it's weird to me that we only just met a few months ago. There's one thing that I'm a little iffy about though... I turned 27 in December, and he'll be 23 at the end of this month (March). I was really bummed when I found this out but also extremely surprised because he doesn't come off that young at all. He says the age gap doesn't bother him at all but I'm worried about what other people might think. It doesn't bother me either because like I said he acts older than he really is, but living in a small town and having everyone know everyone else's business is a little concerning to me.
Most Helpful Guy
it's funny I'm kind of on the same boat I started talking to this girl a couple days ago who is 4 years older then me. I'm 20 and she's 24 we haven't went on a date yet but when when we talk we get along well and she's always engaged in the conversation. but every once in a while she brings up my age how I'm mature but so young.
I think we would get along great but I think she's hesitate because of what people well think. I have no problem with 4 years its really not that much of a gap i just hope she doesn't call it off because of it. anyways you shouldn't care about what people think fuck them. if you like each other go with it i would understand if it was 7 or 8 years but it's not. you shouldn't throw away something special just because of other people's opinion who knows he could be the 1 give him a chance. example my grandpa is 4 years younger then my grandma they been together since their early 20s and are still happily married more then 50 years later.1
Most Helpful Girl
It doesn't matter what other people think. If you like him, then don't let that stop you.3