So I've known this guy low key since I was ten. My mom coaches a snowboarding team and I had a huuugee crush on him when he was a freshman. Fast forward a little over a decade. Him and I had been talking for a few weeks. There was a significant back and forth. Though i always text him first. He grows 215 in california (pretty close to where I live) and just last week got back from a festival. he's flirted with me blantantly and implied going and doing things together and told me to come visit him on his property. I talked to him last at the airport about a week ago. And he was all for me going up there to hang out. But ever since then I haven't heard anything. I messaged him once since asking if he was enjoying being back home and he never replied. he's been online too. I want to send a tasteful nude just to try ans grab his attention. Is this a bad idea? If so should I just let it go? I do feel like he may be busy with his plants and not necessarily ignoring me on purpose. What can I say to grab his attention? Help!
Most Helpful Guy
Don't send the nude.
It will be like u r an easy girl. U r just not thinking right. It's all hormones and emotions in control XD try to snap out of it and be who u really r. He will fall for that.
And it's very possible he is not ignoring u. If he did incite u to his house these are possible scenarios :
1- he is an asshole want to use u and just want sex
2- he really see u as friend that's why he casually invited u to hangout
3- he like u and hay was like checking the waters before one day he get the balls to ask u out.0
Most Helpful Girl
You never know where your nude might end up, but do whatever you want. He doesn't seem to be that into you though and if I were you I would forget about him0