i know females say they want a mature guy and when I was younger I never drank or did drugs, I focused on my studies and I was even called boring and old man by a lot of my peers because i never participated in dangerous behavior, in the past couple of years I have been noticing females paying attention to me and some even making the first move, saying how mature I am (not literally but alluding to it by my accomplishments when they ask my goals or about myself) I just don't get it though, i am the same guy and I never became more mature because I never participated in rowdy behavior, I always had goals and still have goals, even a couple of girls who I knew from college who looked down at me or would never even think about being with me are giving me attention, I just don't get it?
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Have you lost weight? Do you think you look better than you did in the past?0
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Same here bro, I didn't bother with girls when I was younger cause well, I was "out of their league". Was skinny/fat. Years goes by with you maturing mentally/physically/looking better and girls naturally checking you out more. When girls are paying more attention to you more suddenly, it's really weird at first cause you're like "wtf did I do?". Now I just embrace it.0