Most Helpful Guy
Stick with who you really feel you are. You sound very feminine. Tall, yes, but that doesn't detract from your femininity. Lifting weights is good. Shows you are looking after yourself.
At 13, don't worry about your body too much. You are still developing and still have a long way to go. See what you look like at 18. I bet you'll be terrific!0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Girl
Okay, first of all, wanting to do well in school has nothing to do with gender. I'd be interested to hear where you got that idea from. A lot of women would like to have "some muscle" which is why a lot of them go to the gym or to fitness classes... I've known a lot of girls who enjoy sports. In fact, there are a lot of female professional athletes. Don't let anyone tell you there's something wrong with that. Wealthy families don't only produce boys... Gender has nothing to do with how wealthy your family is. Like at all. And you are young. Your body is still developing. Not every girl grows up to be super curvy but your body will become more "womanly" as you continue through puberty. If guys treat you like they're afraid of you, they're immature. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE