I've been seeing this guy for almost two months and things have been good. I can tell his feelings have grown for me and I like him a lot too.
Yesterday he came over and hung out and then he said he would see me tomorrow. Even said he wanted to sleep over. I believed him. He even texted me saying he couldn't wait to have me in his arms the next day.
Then today right when I was getting off work, he texted saying he wanted to hang out tomorrow instead because his best friend was coming over tonight.
I asked why he couldn't invite me. Obviously they're going to be drinking and celebrating the holiday. He gave some bs excuse that he couldn't because his friend had to tell him some personal stuff.
Now I dont even want to talk to him again. He texted me asking how my day went but I didn't reply. I am incredibly hurt. And I know I wouldn't be this affected by it but my ex would do this crap all the time and I got hurt pretty bad before finally deciding i needed to end that relationship.
So am I blowing this out of proportion? I just can't help but be incredibly hurt by this.
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It's a normal response to feel hurt and wonder about the situation. Things seem to be going good for you guys for the last 2 months
--> however I would think 2 months might be a little too soon to be injected yourself into his personal life. At this point you still want to keep it a little bit more general and light hearted. Sometimes we get caught in a bubble and don't see past that
--> at two months. No matter how amazing it was for the last 2 months. Let him be with his friend without asking to tag a long. Just give him space otherwise you put yourself i situations where the other needs to make up a fabricated story just to tell you no. It puts him in a odd situation too cause Im sure he rather not lie. But the truth is it's just too soon for that0