I have been with this girl for five years and I really do care about her but I do not find her attractive anymore, this is not fully a physical thing but about her lack of a desire to live a physically healthy life. Is it healthy for me to be with her when all I do is get more attracted to woman I know who live the lifestyle I do find attractive.
Most Helpful Girl
you shouldn't be with someone that you aren't attracted to unless you feel like you can change it i mean its not fair on her unless you're happy this way and she knows how you feel i don't think its healthy and thinking of being with other women isn't good either sure everyone sometimes fantasises but it sounds like you care about this girl but if you look at the bigger picture you want out..1
Most Helpful Guy
It's not good for either of you if you're in a relationship and not attracted to her. Not saying you will, but it's how people end up cheating. Best to just come clean and talk to her about it. Who knows, maybe she'll change her ways? Else, you have room for friendship.1
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