Good to know. Thank you for your response.
Makes sense. I can understand that. Wanting to be with someone who has the same interests in you. This is one of the best responses. Thank you.
No problem!!! In the end people fall in love with who a person is. So personality is defiantly number for most girls!
That's really good to hear.
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I think this has been the best response so far. Thank you for that.
Thank you :)
Interesting. Thank you for your response. 😁
So you're more saying dress well, be well groomed, shower. Is more important then the more traditional sense of good looking so the abs, strong chest and arms, hard jaw line. You are more concerned with how a guy treats himself and just in general looks good to you? Is that correct?
Yes, that is correct
Agreed with the whole yellowish teeth and nails. But if you take into deep consideration the way you act and do things. Why not set the same bar for guys? Just asking is all.
Because I'm doing this stuffs for myself not for to be attractive :) I have not boyfriend now but I actually don't plan for that so if one guy have good looking or not I won't care it because it won't make me fall in love
So a 5/10 in looks mixed with a 8/10 personality is good for you?
If a guy, let's say isn't wearing the most well put together outfit, but seems like he takes care of himself and is well groomed? How would you see him then?
I'd like that 😁
Interesting. Thank you for your response
I know what you mean, but may I ask in your own words. What is mental attraction?
Like attraction to personality and if we have the same likes and dislikes.
Makes sense. Thank you for your response.
Could you explain further?
So... Do you not really care about looks at all?
I mean attraction is really an illusion. Sure you have to be "attracted" to the person, but high standards aren't in my mind
What do you mean by an illusion? As far as attraction? I apologize if this is coming off as rude, but I just want to hear your thoughts
What I mean by illusion is what you see isn't what's there all the time. there's so much more to a person that the outside.
Very true. Someone may not have the funds to dress all that well, but they keep themselves groomed and just have a really awesome personality. Whereas there are people whole dress amazing well, but are just rude people.
See I have the money to dress however I want but at the end the day I just don't care what people think of me like right now I have sweatpants on and one of my bedroom tank tops and I'm running errands Lol I don't have time to care what someone else thinks of what I'm wearing and I don't want to waste my money on buying brand-name when I can go find something I can totally rock at target or Old Navy. My hair is a hot mess, but like I said I'm running errands not running for the presidency. I do keep my hair groomed 317 weeks, but I have long hair so I have to maintain it so it doesn't get ruined.
Do you mainly look for pure physical attraction? Like if he works out and eats healthy? Or if he dresses well and grooms well and, unlike most guys, just showers? Or a combination of the two?
physical appearance including dresses and groomed well
So basically a guy who takes care of himself. Fair enough. Thank you for your response.
more important how sexy he looks when with me in public
Ok. I'm gonna need an explanation on that as well. haha Like how he looks with you?
omg yes pretty obvious
Care to explain further?
Well if I think he is attractive than it is ok. He just needs to look good as in not like a hobo you know? I don't have high standards.
Haha makes sense "not a hobo" I think is a good standard to have.
Interesting. Could you explain further?
I basically don't care if he looks "hot" or "not" if someone catches my eye it's because of the way they talk or their personality. I don't know why girls like to pick guys that are "hot" and won't give others a try. Certainly there are guys that look better than others, but to me, I like whoever I like - not based off appearances.
Interesting. I agree. I'm the same with women. Thanks for stating your opinion.
Would you mind explaining why?
ok maybe not so important but generally the guy should be good looking, and I'm not just talking about his body/face. I like guys that dress nice, have good style wear cologne is a gentlemenwell groomed if he has all those, he'll look hot and attractive even if he is not physically good looking
That makes sense. Thank you!
Please do explain? I've been hearing how mostly personality is what trumps everything in the end.
everyone is different. some find perosnaliy appealing. yea that's cool too but i find appearance more important because i am insanely beautiful and i like to be attracted to someone just at least as attractive as i am. personality doesn't make my panties wet, a sexy face and body does