Is this a bad idea?

I became super attracted to this woman at a doctor's office. Before and after each appointment we talk a little bit. She told me about her relationship with her family, that she's single, and what happened in her last relationship, which the guy had a secret life behind her back and all that.
Anyway she's 9 years older than I and has two kids. I requested her on Facebook and she accepted me almost immediately.
I've been wanting to try talking to her since she added me, but I'm kinda scared.
I just started a new job and haven't started so we'll, and it's commission based, and I'm about to lose my second job because the company has failed, and I'm young, so I'm not sure about being a father figure.
Help please
Is this a bad idea?
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