Darling you're living in a fantasy! Things don't work that way in reality... unless you have the power and the resources to make it happen or you both work for it to happen..! it's just a pipe dream! But yes the feeling will always be there...
It's not a fantasy and everyone's destination to love and growth is different. Someone can tell me "love at first sight" and I'll tell them that's a fantasy. It can be the right time but wrong person but just because the story sounds fake doesn't mean it's not real.
In reality besides my story, if someone cares they will be willing to go above and beyond for someone who means the "world" to them. We don't choose someone and automatically we'll make the decisions to "love" them. It starts by a connection that grows into a bond and much more. If it's not meant to be no matter how much the two have in common then the guy will not put in effort because it's not a priority.
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