What are the "what are we talk" rules according to you?

So you've been "talking" to a person "seeing" each other for a long time without really being in a relationship.
Now you feel like the current state of things is no longer satisfying for you and you want to have the "what are we" talk.
What are the rules if you are not sure of your partner's feeling but you need to know in order either to commit or to move away from him?
Rule n1 to the "what are we" talk: never have a "what are we" talk. It sucks, it the other really wanted you he would never let you wonder like that.
Vote A
Transparence: say everything, express your feelings as they are and point out why the current state of things is no longer satisfying
Vote B
Subtlety: make him understand you need to talk about what you are coming without saying too much. Just in case he is not as interested as you...
Vote C
Ask for immediate answers
Vote D
Keep it open, it may be surprising and the person may need time to know what he wants
Vote E
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