Ok. Thanks So it's not odd that a guy tells a girl that he imagines kissing her then.
I've kissed my female friends, MANY times, just not passionate, erotic kisses!! Like 'Little sister' kind of 'I LOVE YOU' soft, loving kisses!!No big deal.
Ah so if the kiss turned to passionate, and erotic then the guy definitely sees the girl as more than a friend. Ok
Yeah, did that a few times, and we were drinking, and the kiss lead to more, and it was GREAT, but we don't talk anymore, and aren't friends. Her choice, each time.Personally, I like to get to know her, maybe as a friend, first, and when we share a certain comfort, an understanding, it seems to make sense to take good friends, to good lovers, aand maybe lovers then partners.Never met a woman that thought that way! I either get into the 'Like him, might like to, with him," or more frequently, "JUST FRIENDS". . .
I want to start off as good friends ( which we are) there's just times of I guess you'd call it sexual tension. He's just better at hiding it then I am.
I have always thought that being friends, then closer friends, then when you really know each other, one day, you just kind of think, OMG, Do I really LOVE her, LIKE LOVE HER? Or her, thinking the same, about him?Best friends, to best lovers, and a 'Happily Ever After,' kind of thing, for 60 years, or so...I have NEVER met a woman that even SUGGESTED that idea, though it makes so much sense, at least to me!!I get 'friend-zoned' all the time, because I respect, and treat women friends, well, everyone, really, respectfully.I've talked to several female friends, and they all say they know, almost immediately, if they want to have an intimate relationship, or just a 'friendly' relationship with the guys they meet.I guess I am too much the 'caring', or 'big brother protector', 'Friend' kind, than the 'Hot, Bad-Boy' type that so many seem to want!! If they only knew what they missed out on. . .
There aren't many guys like you. But that's exactly the kind of guy I've got on my hands. He respects everyone and is kind, sweet, smart, funny. Guys like that are hard to find.
Well then hang on, and find a way to make everything work for the ONE IN A MILLION, "Happily Ever After!!" I hope it works out for you!!! :)
Thanks. But I don't know if he really wants me even though we hangout every day and known each other for almost 2yrs.
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