I've gone out with this guy a few times and we get along great! Everything is easy and comfortable. The one problem is he admit to me that he's waiting and looking for something to be wrong or off. He says all other girls he's dated have showed flags and I've yet to do so. Is this a compliment? Does he not realize if you look for a flaw you're bound to find something? I am anything but perfect and while I am confident in who I am it's un-nerving to think I am under a microscope.