Yea it does seem awkward, could you give an example? I would really appreciate it!
i don't know the context. are you texting? calling? where do you know her from, etc?
I'm texting her, I talked to her best friend about asking her to go to a concert with me. Her friend gave me her number so I could get to know her better before I asked so it wouldn't be too forward. I know her from school more specifically we have the same Spanish class.
maybe segue into a conversation by asking her something about class. i. e. "hey it's mr X from Spanish class, got your number from mr Y. did you do that Spanish assignment?"(explaining how you got her number in this context might make some sense.) however her first thought is likely to be "who the hell is mr X and why is he texting me?" honestly, while it may be nerve wracking, the best is talking to her in person in class. texting a stranger to hit on her without context will probably be awkward.
Well she defiantly knows who I am, I've caught her glance a couple times. the only problem is that in this class the teacher is a bit strict about sagging off and talking plus not sitting next to her doesn't help. I just need to start a convo over text to get a feel about what she's like.
the letters are just the beginning letter of our names lol just for privacy. While "hey🙂🙂" Might be a possibility... I'll give you some background info. So this girl is from my Spanish class we haven't talked much but I like her, I spoke with her bff and she gave me her number now I want to get to know her before I ask her if she'd like to go to a concert with me.
Yes that's perfectly fine. You can start off as hey and allow her to respond. Just don't do too much and she'll probably feel awkward by it.. take it slow lol
So just start with hey? Won't that be awkward within itself, she doesn't know I have her number so what should I say after iniciating the convo with hey?
Say hey this is (your name) she'll eventually ask how did you get her number and you take it on from there
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