Thank you, that makes me feel better. I know I technically have time, but I don't want to be 50 and still alone.-.
When you overthink things, that always make it worse in your head and you act like that is the reality of whatever. I didn't find love until I was almost 25. I never worried about it because I felt it will happen when it's supposed to. today, I'm happy it didn't happen sooner. I got to experience many things i might have missed if I got so wrapped up in a relationship sooner. It wasn't planned, but it worked out great. When you are 19, you have so much more to learn about many things in life. I'm not saying you won't learn them if you are in a tight relationship, but it does change things. I'm a big believer in Not getting locked in until at least 25 years of age and not having kids until you've lived together for at least three years. Because you are in love doesn't mean you have experienced all that you should with that person before kids come along. It's much better to take a few years living together, married or not, to really get the relationship on solid ground.
Until you live together, you haven't seen all the good and bad. We all have things that don't show up if you aren't together night and day. Having kids before you've done this changes everything and the kids become the most important focal point. Your relationship changes after kids. Your alone time is lessened and your routines will change. really knowing your partner inside and out really helps you when the struggles that come with children happen. Good luck to you and I hope you find a golden man.
thanks, I understand. That indeed helps me feel better. I will try my best not to worry about it and trust it will happen when the time is right
thank you, I hope I find someone great too♡
You're sweet! You'll find your guy. Good guys like sweet lady's.
Thank you :) You have helped a lot
I'm glad! My best to you.
thank you, I will try to love myself more and know what I want.
Thanks, I guess I think about it a lot because both of my siblings have the love of their lives already and I get kinda jealous.-.
You will find ur love in time trust me. Just be Happy for them :)... And continue to do you boo boo <3
It's hard to be happy for them when they kinda make me feel bad for not having a boyfriend yet lol but I still try to show them support since they are my family. I hope I find my love, or at least someone I can really relate to <3 Thank you
Im sorry if they make you feel like that , that's just not right at all... Someday they will be the ones who are jealous of your relationship.Hang in there and don't don't just settle for any man willing to pay you some attention.Make sure he is right for YOU. You will find urself to be much happier that way. <3
I know, it's terrible.-. That would be quite something if they were ever jealous of me lol Thank you <3 I went out with someone before for that very reason and i wasn't happy at all :( But I hope I can find someone who is right for me
In Due time you certainly will and it will happen when you least expect it.Now days I know its hard but there are still good ones out there :)
I know there are good ones still out there :) I just hope I am lucky enough to find one
Time boo boo.. xo I wish you the best and sending relationship dust ur way <3
Thank you very much :) <3 I hope you find the ONE too, you seem very sweet and seem to have such a lively personality <3
awe. thank you very much :) ... In time im sure of it im just waiting for the RIGHT one to show up.. lol
I am sure you will find him :) Try talking to new people! I am trying to do that lol
I talk to people all the time, social butterfly here :P...Just have not met any man who I believe it worth putting my time into yet. I've been with a few bad seeds and I keep my guard up and am always watching for red flags. But , yes im sure soon enough ill meet Mr. right for me :)<3
aw lol just passing down advice people tell me cx I guess socializing isn't your problem them, but don't worry. it will happen soon since you are very open :)
Thank you :)...I also live in such a small city I feel like everyone already knows everyone hahaha...id like to move I would prob have better luck than :P
maybe, I live in a big city so I can't really relate, but maybe you can move or travel more. Traveling really opens your mind too, even if relationships aren't involved in it
you are absolutely right !!! that's what I've been thinking too :D
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I'm sorry to hear that :( Maybe you could talk to her? what makes you say it will be easy for me?
I think she hates me 😂. It will be easier for you because you are female and are probably really attractive unlike me.
Well you can never know for sure, maybe just try?and I mean, I have been told I am beautiful, pretty and cute by people but I don't know I still feel bad sometimes and worry
You shouldn't, you aren't ugly like me 😂. You are beautiful, kind and seem to have a great personality! Myself on the other hand, ugly, socially awkward, weird and stupid.
Thank you, but I am sure you aren't ugly, just work on social skills and confidence maybe?
Sorry, I accidently put "man". Sorta rushed into this question without thinking.
I am sorry to hear that :(
Ah, I've only been single a MERE 10 years now.
Maybe ask out women who are younger, or talk to them? Men typically like to date younger
I've met a few good matches online between 18 to 22. We've seemed like really compatible matches, but they always live like a thousand or more miles away.More of the ones 9 + years younger than myself seem to have similar morals and interests as me more often, which matters for long term, but distance is always a problem.
maybe try to deal with the location problem? Like try to meet each other halfway? I don't know I am sure it can work out if you guys put in the effort
I can't afford to meet every month long distance and pay for multiple hotel days. When they are too long distance, it is like one person needs to move to the other when you haven't really gotten to spend much time together.There are tons of people here in California where I am, but I seem to meet very few single ones that are a good match. Plus I never approach them in person because some of them wouldn't like the idea that a man in his mid 30s is interested in them. Or they wouldn't believe it is genuine because of what others tell them.For anything in person, I leave it up to them to initiate. I only initiate when meeting someone online anymore.
you could always try to initiate ♡ Lots of girls like older men, I know I do lol (nothing against younger ones, but older ones seem more mature and know what they want)
I am sure you are a good catch for those women, you seem very smart!
Yeah, I know what I want.A happy low stress home, eventually with kids. I want a family day each week where we play board games together, and either watch a movie or maybe NFL football during that season if they are into that. If not, we could stick to the movie after our games and order pizza once per week.I want lots of affection and closeness, but I need most of one of my days off each week to myself. If we all could play COD together as a team online, that would just be awesome.I don't want to just date, I want a lasting relationship and a family.
That's very beautiful! I would want all of that too, that would be a dream! You seem like a very down to earth, intelligent, committed :) Any woman would be lucky to have you in their life.
BUT, let me guess. You live very far away from California huh?
I live in Illinois :)
That figures. You are all the way in Illinois. And I bet you couldn't afford to come to California to visit either huh?
As of right now, no unfortunately lol maybe we can still be friends though? cx
Can you tell me your name please?
My real name? or username
Just your first name. Your username is visible already. :P
Were you named after the Little Mermaid?That sounds nice and unique.
Thank you :) Yes, I was named after the Little Mermaid <3
Do you like Disney movies too then?
I like that Alice Through the Looking Glass movie. Have you seen it?
Yes I do, I love them <3 And I haven't actually seen that one yet but I seen the first one and of newer Disney films I have seen Moana and Finding Dory
I like Disney movies. They are just usually expensive. Like $20 most of the time.My favorites are Aladdin, Lion King, and Beauty and the Beast out of the older ones.
They are crazy expensive, I try to find them cheap online sometimes. Those are great! Beautiful classics <3 Mine are Dumbo, Little Mermaid, Hunchback of Notre Dame, Fantasia, and Beauty and the Beast <3 Is there a way you can message me at all? :)
Yeah. I am the last person to follow you. Follow me back and we can PM.
I followed back :) Can you PM me?
even statistically it's just very very improbable that you'll end up alone
thanks, I guess you're right (:
I'm 48, and I STILL don't have a clue.
@Woodlandgnome But... you ardn't a virgin, at least?
No, I'm not, but I have been hurt, very deeply, and I doubt I will ever find true love. Hell, I'm starting to doubt it even exists.
@Woodlandgnome I can understand that feeling.
I am sorry to hear that from you guys :c I am young but I have been hurt too, I just want to find someone better than my ex.-.
Stupid dog, you made me look bad!