Self confidence gets me nothing. I'm confident I'm a great guy. I think some girls freak out that I never had any friends before and still don't.
Try and look for people with similar interests to hang out. For me it is hard enough being an empath. Knowing everyone's feelings, motivations, and emotions around you makes it hard to develop relationship. I tried online dating, never really worked that well for me either. I did find a few friends though. Make a list of everything that interests you, and what you like to do. There are websites that offer meet-ups with people with similar interests. Your other option is start going out more for hobbies/fun.
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Those are the sites that make me feel this way.. I get ignored
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