Yesterday me and my boyfriend kind of had a disagreement over the phone. Whenever he's in the wrong he always gets really defensive and makes me feel like im the one who's wrong when it's actually him. I can't ever mention something he is doing that is wrong because it turns into huge fights and he's so manipulative and I end up apologising when I did nothing? . I was extremely upset and crying on the phone yesterday because i was explaining to him how i felt something is different between us and i just wanted to talk to him about it and he told me he shouldn't have to talk about depressing things like that with me and i got upset because he started being really mean when all i wanted was to sort this out and he just hungup on me while I was crying and went to sleep, didn't even say goodbye or anything? how could someone who loves u do that? Whenever I'm upset and I want to talk to him he says that he shouldn't have to deal with me and he's not my councillor?