So lie if they ask about my exes? Oh k? I Thought girls like honesty. But oh well.
Don't lie, that will cause more problems down the road. I'm just explaining what might go through our minds if we hear that. However it's the full package, not just that one fact. If you present yourself confidently, you're interesting to talk to, you're fun, theyre attracted to you, then they shouldn't ghost you
It's been happening every time. As soon as I find a girl to talk to they think I'm funny, and exciting then I tell them about my non relationship past then they ghost..
And how is it quite out of the norm? I don't want to be out of the norm..
You probably reveal it too soon and in a way that's too heavy for them to handle.It's out of the norm because most people have their first relationship at least by their early 20s
How's this sound... I'll say something like this next time... Yes, I had a relationship when I was twenty we fell in love but she decided to start flirting with other guys.. So I ended up dumping her. She would always complain and whine. I had another one at 24.. we had a great relationship.. But she was lazy and didn't want to clean, or pay bills or nothing. Like raising a child so I left.. then my last ex was always drinking and partied too much.. So I left her... I just made that up on the spot? I hate doing that. But.. I might have too. I'm very lonely.. :(
Lol don't lieJust casually tell her that you've never been in a relationship. I bet $20 that the reason they're ghosting you is because you're putting too much weight on their shoulders by being too dramatic. You can already tell by the way you said "I hate [lying]. But... I might have to.. I'm very lonely.. :(". People can't handle this kind of pressure and talking like that only pushes people away. It's not interesting, it's not fun, it's not funny. It's a burden
I'm not dramatic.. I know girls hate unconfident losers.. I even have them laughing now and then.. They dreaded question about exes or friends Come up. I don't have neither.. They did ask me why? I don't believe it. I told them and they ghost.
Tip #1: don't put a million "..."s after every sentence. It makes you sound depressed Tip #2: don't go to extremes such as lying and don't talk about how you're so lonely and depressed ( :( :( :( ) upon just meeting a woman
I never say that women hate depressed, virgin, losers. I know this.
I did that too.. But when they ask about exes. I guess I can make up a few on the spot? I hate lying. :(
I'll Just hope that they never ask about exes.. I can't lie
Say instead u never felt comfortable with someone to open up seriously with. It sounds better. Tc
Yep! Everything was fine until the exes and my past relationships topic came up then the sh"t hit the fan.
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Why is it scary? I'm not a perverted freak or a monster. I'm just a regular guy!
Well you could say something like "I never had a girlfriend because I was too busy. If I could turn back time I would've made room for ladies in my life."
Great advice! I'm also shy because I'm a virgin too. Not even kissed. But that's another topic.
That's hard... first kisses are awkward af let alone losing it.
I'm 36! It's definitely strange now
I'm not even close to gay. I never wanted or had a boyfriend.
And if I was gay. Why the heck would I be talking to chicks? Crazy but thank you