I'm pretty yes but I don't have friends. I work and go to school. I see a future for myself and tell guys they will never come first my money and school does
Can u describe something about your behaviour?
I tell guys if you don't a relationship then dont message me... and they don't some still try it. But I tell them I strictly want to be romance and go on dates nothing less. And then they try to hook with me
How many friends do u have? (girls?
4 at most
From ur conversation I sense that You are very desperate to make a boyfriend. You want someone who loves u n u want to go to date. You have told this to guys. Now, guys know that u r desperate to make a boyfriend and they are seeing this opportunity to hook up with u. Dont try to find ur soulmate you will get him eventually.
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But how? I'm not a slut I just have big lips and they always assume I am cause of my lips
Maybe you have a bad personality or are unattractive? I sincerely doubt that you're single because of your fucking lips lmao. Let's be real.
im actually neither. my ex's all say I'm intimidating. cause I'm motivated and determined. But then again I am on POF to find a boyfriend
That's bullshit. Motivation and determined are positive traits that guys look upon in a positive light in regards to dating value. That's not intimidating in the least. It might be intimidating to some stoner not doing shit with his life but those aren't guys you're probably interested in. All of that is delusion. Girls who are single and say it's for those reasons are in utter denial and living in complete delusion. If you are in fact those things, they wouldn't work against you. Do you have less than adequate social skills? A decent sized social circle that consistently opens doors to meet new guys?
I don't even meet guys in person anymore just online.
Look I'm trying to be insulted here so calling me a slut doesn't help me at all
I'm just ready to settle but guys wanna fuck me instead of date me
Using online dating is a good tool to utilize by not by itself. It's to be used a supplementation but not a replacement. You're really limiting yourself by doing that. One thing to consider as well is the fact that guys at 19 and in college age aren't really looking for a relationship. They are still finding themselves and choose to sleep around to keep things less complicated. Have you considered dating older?
I only date from 24 to 28 and they still act my age it's tough.
Ahah. Well don't limit yourself to only guys of that age range too. I went military first but I'm at university now hanging out with a bunch of people your age all the time. Some of my buddies that I graduated high school with are more immature than some of the guys I've met here that are your age. Call me cocky, but I think I have more going for me than most guys who are in their late twenties. Being an asshole isn't age specified. Being inexperienced isn't age specified. The list goes on. I think dating a 28 year old isn't a good choice. When I say older I was sort of referencing someone my age. Chances of maturity and establishment are going to be greater in someone older but don't go too far up if you feel as if you have to settle for this because you can't find what you want in a guy at your age. Girls tend to mature faster than guys but that doesn't apply when he is 28 lmao. My girlfriend is 21 and I think something like that is a good gap.
Exactly this. Most of the cases I see similar to this arise from people surrounding themselves with the wrong people. I myself had the same issue, before I started being more selective about the women I spoke to.