He wasn't speaking softly
may be you were?
No I have a loud voice
okay, the way he was sitting? was it easier/more comfortable to lean towards you?
I don't think so
then the discussion you guys were having was very interesting/personal to him.
Yes it was
there you go. He was very much interested in your conversation.
there has to be more signs than that.
like , he will try to start conversation, and he will always try to be near you. If you guys are just joking around, and you said something jokingly like "you are not even half hot as Derek", he will laugh, but will be hurt and try to avoid you for 2 3 days. He will be jealous if you talk about other guys.
He is jealous if I talk about other guys
he likes you then
I just don't know how much
Patience. After some times he will only tell you.
He told me he wanted me before
Are you waiting for him to ask tou out?
Yes.Some people think he doesn't want to, I don't know how to tell
How often do you guys communicate? And does he know that you like him?
We'll I said I wanted him to but days later and sometimes we don't commucate for weeks at a time but lately it's been okay
Next time, blow him off. Just be plain dry. Do not reply to his texts. If he asks whats wrong, tell him that you are sorey but you want some distance between you two, as you have started to like him little more than friends, and you know he won't be interested (just like that).Ask him to give you , 2 or 3 weeks time. If he genuinely likes you, he will make a move after that. If he does not, you know he is just not that into you, and you can continue after 2 weeks as friends. How much you wanna hangout with him, is left upto you.
I know he wants to be more than friends because that's what we are now and I don't want to totally throw out that he doesn't want something more but I don't know how to ask him what we are? I mean do you think he wants a relationship with me?
If he gets jealous if you talk to other guys, then he does have some interests in you.Whe you guys are alone just stare at him for sometime , continously. And if he asks what happened, say "I am glad that you are in my life. I enjoy our time together. And i really hope we can spend some more time together"
What will that saying do?This is a guy that's shy
i am thinking , he will also say something like he also likes to spend time with you. Then you can try and plan some thing, to spend more time woth each other.
We already spend time together whenever we can I think
yeah but more means, actually planning a day trip or something to someplace. Just you two. won't you like it?
Yeah but he's not a planner that's our problem
Thats what i am saying. You plan with him together. Help him.
He won't tell me for definate
try at least. You have to try somewhere.
Should I just ask him if we're in a relationship or what? How should I ask him?
yes you can ask him directly.
wait for some time, i have to make a call, or PM me and i will reply their.
Possible scenario: if you are close to your mother, and you chat with her normally, you can just say that your mom was asking about him and what is going on between you two. And ask him what should you tell her. You can change mom, to sister if you have any.Otherwise, you ask him on a date. Tell him toy want to have dinner date with him. And make sure to mention it as a date, because you want to take things to next level.Or, you can ask him what does he think of you as. Friend or more than that? if more than what?
My mom asks about him all the time are you kidding me. Can I ask him while were drinking together because I figure the truth comes out more for him when he's drunk
yes you could do that.
Do you that might be best when we're drinking?
even if you do have this conversation while drinking, you will still have to have it when you are sober. I think it does not matter drunk or sober, you need to ask once.
But I feel the Truth comes out more when you're drunk for a guy, right?
i think so. But you need to be sober then. and he might not remember the conversation when he is sober.
How could you forget
If he gets too drunk, he might not remember right?
Yeah but I meant just getting buzzed or something
I don't think that will be enough to get truth out of him.
We'll then drunk I don't know but it happened before
okay. give it a try. All the best. Let me know how it goes.
Were way more than friends
Then you only know that he likes you. But I cannot be sure that if he just want to get in ur pants or does really love you. So beware but he likes you that is for sure.Otherwise we guys dont ho such close to a girl in whom we r not interested.
dont go such*
Right that's what I thought, he even grabbed my at one point. Just trying to figure out to what degree he likes me?
Grab what your breast? Then he might be thinking just to use you. So Beware of that. But i can't say for sure.
Oh sorry I meant he grabbed my hand to hold it while we were talking
Then it confirms it tat he likes you. But he might be playing or he might be Loving u for real.
How do I tell the difference
You will have to evaluate evry sign. If he lies to u it shows negativity. If he is true n loyal to u its positive sign. I cannot write signs here. You will have to find that. If he is very in need to be physical then he most probably is going to cheat.
What do you mean in need to be physical?
Being physical means if he demands sex. Pressurise u about sex. Or does something which goes to sex.
Oh he doesn't demand anything
I m not saying now. Afterwards. If he stays the way he is and u r sure about his loyalty then he loves you. Marry him😀😀
Ahh.. One more, If in a relationshiIfhe discusses about his future with you then he is 100% serious in relationship with you and loves u n will want to marry u for sure. 😊😊
Oh I wish. Afterwards what?
Does wanting to buy a house Count?
Afterwards means after you both confess to each that u love. ..No. his future. Whatever he might think of his future. Like having kids, having job, living in house.
I said how he wants to buy a house, that doesn't count?He does talk to me about his job though
It counts but if he is talking about togetherness. If he is planning future taking account of u both then he wants to marry u n is super serious about you. If he is talking about himself only that doesn't specify anything.N u have to check this after u go into relationship. its when u both officially declare urself as girlfrnd and boufrnd.
Yes we are not even in a relationship yet and I'm not sure if he wants to be in a relationship with me.
He wants to be in relationship with you. Propose him. Build up the courage and go for it.
Do you know for certain
I can't understand you. Go to him before someone takes him from you.
He would stare at you - at your face - that is it. But, if he is staring at your breasts or buttocks - he is just lusting after you. Confident guys hold the stare when you make eye contact while less confident ones tend to look away. He would want you to meet his friends and family. He would smile at you, a lot (remember that many men don't really like smiling). He would spread his legs while he is sat in front of you. When he makes a joke - you would be the first person whom he looks at to see your reaction - every time. He would laugh at your jokes - even the lame ones. He would always be at your side - he won't go against you. He'll be willing to protect you. He will try to spend more time with you - like walking to your home with you after a long day spent together. He'll let you see that he is checking you out. He'll fix himself when you enter the place where he was. He'll let you borrow things from him and won't really expect you to return them, etc.
He looks directly at me and at my face in my eyes. He laughs at my joke.He always gets ready for when he sees me.He's legs aren't spread out totally but there not always together totally eighter.
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I do like him I just dont know to what degree he likes me
hmmmmm.. yeh.. well you're gonna have to find a way to find out without fucking up the relationship between you 2 as friends... i honestly dont know how to do that..
you can try being like a magnet.. make him like you.. and see what he does after that.. if he really likes you.. he'll show signs..
In my case a guy I liked show me signs he kinda of liked me but it was not true at the end so how an I tell if the signs are true or not?
Yes what do you mean?
We'll I don't know to what degree though
We have kissed before
its more likely that he likes you
I don't know how much then
We have talked many of times, how would I find out unless I ask him
how does he responds to your company does likes your company being together you see if he likes being with you spends time with you and enjoys he may like you by the way is he a co worker or friend. how do you know each other
No he likes my company and were way more than friends
Then he likes you as for me as a guy if i am speding time with some one and i like it and want to spend more time with then it means i like her and just waiting for right time to tell her
Do you like him if so why dont you just break the ice, does it matter
What do you Mean by break the ice like what
means you tell him about your feelings why wait
We'll because what if he's not feeling the same
I have read through your replies you said you have kissed, why a guy misses a gal is it not obvious that he likes you and you like him what that kiss all about then?
Yeah I guess we have feelings for each other.I just don't know how much he likes me
does not matter as long as you both have feelong for each other keep spending time with each other and if he not expressing his feelings then you should express your dont wait cause its is better to strike when the iron is hot
Well I just don't know if he wants to be in a relationship with me
come on i dont get it i mean you talk spend time together, you have kissed i mean you both have emotional touch, what is it then and also he is single? why dont just open your mind tell him how you feel even if you are not sure about it. Cause you care about him and to be honest you want him in relationship, keeping silence won't help
Well I don't know if he wants to be in one
Yes but I don't know if he wants to be in one. What do you think?
You see for sake of. argument if he does. not want to be in one at lease you won't regret that you never asked. So go for it you will do fine and this will clear you mind too
Well I want him to yes. What do you think?
I think. that would. be great for you. And i think will say yes
Why do you think he'll say yes?
First he likes your company second he as you said you are. more then friends third you have kissed and that shows the intrest in you, you also admit at some point he grabed you these are sighns, you only want to see how. much he likes you then get even closer.
Well how do I ask him? I was planning to while were drinking together
What were you planning about and talk with rotate conversation to relationships then when you get his attension ask him
What do you mean?
Means ask him after bringing up the relationship topic
What do I say?