I have a really hard time finding the right guy for me. I get guys who are interested in me, but most of them just want sex. I guess it is because of the age and where they are at in life. I mean the average guy in his early 20s does want to primarily hook up right? I'm considering looking at guys who are older than me, like in his late 20s or early 30s because I think that they are more likely to want a serious relationship but I don't know what do you think...I will tell you more about me and hopefully I can get some insight.
-I'm going to be 22 this fall
-I'm mixed (african american/native/irish)
-I am mostly like a middle class suburban girl but I did live in the hood during my youth for a few years
-I'm sort of still a virgin. I was raped when I was a little girl so I don't know if that counts but I guess that is why I haven't willingly had sex with anyone because I'm afraid of being used.
-I have a lot of friends of both genders but technically they are more like acquaintances, I find it hard to get close with people. even my best friend, I am not super close with like a lot of other bffs that I've seen.
-I've never had a serious boyfriend.
-I live at home but I do have a car
-I love kids and babysitting. I don't know why but I have a soft spot for kids I guess because they are like the future generation and I would want to be a positive influence for them if they don't have anyone.
-I cook a lot, I'm really interested in trying new recipes.
-I'm semi-shy at first and some people have told me that they thought I was stuck up when they first meet me but after I feel more comfortable around you then I'm kinda goofy
-I'm outspoken like I have no problem being honest with people and telling them how I feel but I try to do it in a nice way unless that person is being out of line with me.
-I am really girly, I love shopping and getting my hair and nails done.
-I listen to all types of music but mostly rap, R&B and pop but I don't really like heavy radio rotation stuff...
-I don't really go clubbing much I am more of a homebody or I like to go to friends houses and go out like that
-I don't get mad very often but when I do I get veryveryvery furious and it sometimes scares people
-I hate drama but if someone starts it with me I am not one to back down
-I love doing people's hair and makeup
So based on this, what kind of guy should I be looking at?
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All guys, all ages want just sex first, they can only get in love with time and she has to have very outgoing personality and smile a lot.
Guys that are into serious relationships are usually shy about sex or making a move and they are basically nerds even if they don't wear glasses.2
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