Really? But maybe they're just hopeless and can't get a single date?
There's no such thing. If a man lowers his standards enough, he WILL find a woman for at least one 'date'. She might be a fat crack who're with fifteen kids (all by different men), who's only there to get a free meal and/or a fix, but he'll get that date.On the other hand, once a guy has been burned enough times, he figures out that women are all the same, and the only difference are degrees. Some are more psycho, or less entitled, or more greedy, or whatever, but those are just a question of magnitude. Eventually, he might figure out its pretty easy to be happy without dating. But he's already got that experience.There are some guys that figure it out without all the hassle. They are very few.
Lowers his standards?
Yeah. I'd be fucking a bitch in the next 20 minutes if I were to lower my standards to the point that I'd fuck a fat bitch or a single mother. I won't, so I'm not getting laid in the next 20 minutes. Big fuckin deal. I'm gonna go have lunch, then buy a couple parts for the AR10 carbine I'm building, then probably go fishing. I'm NOT gonna stress about having a woman or not having one, since I've been down that road quite a few times and single life is so much better.
I haven't though.
Then find a way to believe those of us that have.Or get burned a few times, and you'll figure it out in your own. Probably. Some men never do.
Relationships aren't everything..
I meant without ever going on a single date in your life. How does one be happy? What would you suggest?
Yes even without dating.. i do believe there is so much more to life. And if you are unhappy about it.. put yourself out there.. keep looking and trying.. it will happen.
I'm unhappy about it but I don't want to be unhappy about it. Because it's just stressful. So I want to be happy without having to worry about it.
I get that :) have you tired lots of stuff?
Yeah hobbies, spending time with friends, trying new things etc. And general things to build up my confidence. It worked for a bit then I just went back.
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