I'm shy and I think that I would scare a girl off cause if a girl liked me with how rare of a occasion that would be I would try to latch on to that
Yeah it can be hard not to when you're shy and usually don't get much (or any) interest, I think I scared my first boyfriend away like that! It's not unusual. But clinginess really is unattractive unfortunately, so it's important to keep reminding yourself there are other fish in the sea. Because there are, even if it doesn't feel like it. Once you get past that initial fear of the opposite sex things get so much better. You may never be a social butterfly (I'm not), but you can definitely improve. Now, I'm pretty much the opposite of clingy.
https://imgur.com/8GZ05sU Well this is my reason I'm shy because of my appearance, I know right away she would reject me for other guys
You're not a bad looking guy, so I don't think that's the reason you haven't dated. It's the shyness and insecurity. I used to think I couldn't get a date because I was ugly, but actually it was just because I was shy and awkward. It took meeting someone who liked how quiet I was, for that to change. And generally speaking, looks matter more for girls than guys (though it matters for both). Since society still expects guys to make the first move most of the time, I'm sure it's harder for shy guys. But if you take baby steps to push yourself out of your comfort zone and start talking to girls, it'll happen. Just don't overlook shy girls and more average looking girls... I'm not talking about dating people you're not attracted to, but if you only go for the very hottest girls around, you're seriously limiting yourself. There are lots of pretty girls with great personalities who don't get a ton of attention.
So I really could get a girl
Of course! I believe there's someone for everyone, it just takes some people more time and effort.
Yeah sometimes I just feel like a freak when I look around and see other people in relationships and think to myself I'll never get a chance to experience what that's like
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You are still young. I never dated anyone before either. People may find it attractive if you never dated anyone before
I mean I never had a single girlfriend at all even when I was in grade school to now
I never had a boyfriend. I never even had my first kiss lmao
https://imgur.com/8GZ05sU But you can see why with me based on my appearance
What are you talking about? You're very handsome!
People have told me I'm ugly
Don't listen to them!!! Some people find other people more attractive then others
Yeah what I have done is just mainly kept to myself and stopped trying to get a girlfriend since people made these comments
Don't listen to people that's your first step!
So do I just go out and get embarrassed by some girls who will call me repulsive
Those are not the girls you want
Not all girls are like that
So what kind of girl should I date