You basically described me lol, I need to get out more, I know that's a big problem. I'm 26 so most of my friends now have kids, married, careers and what not so we don't go out nearly like we use to. We went from going out every Friday and Saturday to maybe going out once every couple months. And it's not my friends fault that got more important responsibilities and I respect that.
I live by a shore town in New Jersey. So for the next 3 to 4 months during summer I'll definently have a shot on just meeting new people in general for so many people coming down here.. I just need to take advantage of it
Is being shy that crippling for a guy?
I'm shy too, trust me I get it.but at the same time, being that shy for that long is very offputting
Who knows, I'm starting to think some people are just meant to be single, if it's not being shy maybe it's the way I carry myself that I have no conscience to. Who knows but thanks
I'm a decent looking guy, I'd say I'm average to above average on a good day. But I'm really shy but the type that will warm up to you in time. For a guy, from a women's perseceptive, is being shy basically a life sentence for finding someone with guys doing the majority of the approaching?
I'm also extremely shy so I know I couldn't hit it off with another shy person. But I know some girls who'd make the first move when they like someone and I know some guys who also don't talk a lot but manage to get a girlfriend so I think there's a chance :)
Thanks, maybe I need to get out more, but who knows I'm completly lost lol
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I'm definently shy, I think that's it. That won't ever change though, that's who I am
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