Its more of a rhetorical question. There is this cute guy at my job, had long hair/shoulder length (which usually doesn't look good on guys to me) he had it cut and still looks great. Great body, sense of humor. I saw him checking me out. It's just he has a girlfriend :( . Finding guys like that is so hard and if I do then they're afraid to talk to me. Where with him, we work together so it makes sense to chat. His girlfriend us lucky for sure.