Okay so here's the thing, I am 24 so don't me to harsh on me please I'm just trying to figure this whole dating game out still. My confidence has been low ever since I was a child due to being overweight, bullying etc so I have some issues with making the first move. I was wondering though, what is the first thing you notice in a girl/guy when you meet someone new? Is it their physical appearance? Their confidence? The way they interact? I'm just really trying to tell myself that it's not all about physical appearance, but from my life experiences I'm not having very good luck at it.