I'd like someone who knows what they want and knows how to take it. I know that girls mature faster than boys, so while I'm about to turn 18 and leave high school I've yet to have a boyfriend. I've turned down a few guys because I just didn't find their actions attractive, and I want someone to just reach out to take what they want instead of being a fumbling nervous mess. Coming up on this last summer I'm not looking for anything long term, but I've been thinking about just going for it anyways and taking charge to show a particular guy I've been thinking about what I want. Would this be wrong or too direct?