This weekend my boyfriend and I were having a serious conversation about his family issues, and somehow we got to the topic of marriage, or something related to the topic. My boyfriend asked me how I feel about it and if it's something I would want to do. My answer was that it was never something I dreamed about, in the sense of it being a goal of mine, but that I was open to the idea of it. In other words, I would be happy with my life both if I did, or if didn't get married. He made a few jokes later in the day like "if you want to get married, you better ________" and stuff like that. Do you think he's thinking about it for real?