I wouldn't feel loved either, but what if you are so bad with women that you know that no other woman would want to date you? That's what I'm trying to get at here.
I'm sure there are women out there who would want to date you. Just be confident and respectful. Get involved in places where you'll meet people. The right woman will come along.
I deserved to be loved, but cannot find love.
You cannot find love, when u dont know the Love that lives within youLove can't be seekBut love can be sharedYou have to love yourself first, before you love any otherBy this, if you loved yourself, People won't be hard to love you toofor example:-Celebrities, do you ever know why people loved a celebrity or star?those fans won't ever be noticed by that celebrityBut people continue to love those celebrityI just mean that those people (celebrities) who loved themselves been loved and accepted by other peoplesBecause they know, they have that loved within, and they receive much of the amount of love they need for themselves...just by sharing that love to others that they have within yourselfIf you want a girl to love you the same, then let her know you are enough to be loved by herYou are lovable yourselfYou can be loved by them
I know little of what I'm talking about? Ok, so girls making fun of me is something I don't know about. Ok then...
You don't know how it feels like to be cheated on.You rather be cheated on than she leaving you (for whatever reason) but hopefully you realize that when that happens, she already left you a long time ago.
Something tells me that you are very different from your sister in that regard. Kind of weird, how people growing in the same household and similar circumstances can have such different morals. Must be something innate or so.
I do have low self respect.
Go get some self respect before dating because that is very unattractive
I can't when girls don't even want to touch me. I'm weird to them.
So being alone is better than being with a girl who you know is cheating on you?
definitely... I'm answering from experience. happened to me while I was deployed too, so yeah. without a single doubt
Deployed? What branch are you in?
Oh. I'm an ADA officer in training.
Meaning I'm about to go into ROTC
trying to get a commission and join?
and air defense artillery?
Yeah I'm joining through my ROTC program in college. I don't start ROTC until August. And yeah. Air defense artillery.
having been in for almost 4 years now, I regret not staying in college and staying civilian
Why didn't you go through ROTC?
couldn't really afford college period. lost my job, panicked, enlisted, less than, a month later, I got an amazingly great job opportunity, but I was already in basic lol
Oh. I feel. I don't even know if I'm going to be able to afford the school I'm going to.
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Not really. No
I would have self respect if girls didn't treat me like I was sub human.
There's your problem, you're basing your self worth on what you perceive others to see you as. If you want to stop being treated as sub human, you have to stop seeing yourself as sub human.
Seeing myself as not sub human will not affect those seeing me as sub human.
Okay it's a fact of life, not everyone is going to think highly of you. That's why you associate yourself with people who do.
I don't have much of value, so getting any girl, no matter if she's cheating or not, is a prize to me.
That is your problem my friend, self esteem fix that first:) kisses
I don't have a girlfriend currently. I'm only saying if I did and she were to cheat on me I wouldn't care. And since I haven't had a girlfriend in 18 years I don't think i would get a chance at another one.
And so? I respect other people, but I do not respect myself.
Which is just as bad...
I f you have a lower standard respect fo yoirself you will mirror it and start thinking of the same for other people as. well..
But what if i hold myself to a higher standard?
It does, because I realize that I can't get a girl other than her.
That's not true you can get any girl you want , I mean you're a guy... According to what she's doing to you she Got a shitty personality. Trust me you deserve better..
I can't get any girl I want. If that was true, I would be dating Kendall Jenner.
Lol yeah true you can't get any person you want , but ask yourself this ,"Is she worth my time and love?"
But I can't do anything because other girls don't like me.
how sociable are you? Do you have a backbone? there's plenty of things that girls like and your still young I've never had a relationship and doubt I will for awhile but that won't mean I'll let a guy walk all over me
I'm sociable but not with girls because they give me body language hints that they don't want to be talked to. This happens with all of them. I have a backbone, but I'm not a dickhead, which is probably where the problem lies. Girls like it when guys are dicks to people.
girls tend to like the bad boy vibe but not that a guy is a Dick to people
Isn't that what bad boys do?
Never heard of a bad boy giving to charity.
nope that's the portrayal of a good fella when he's actually a gangster
But you don't understand. I can't get any other girls.
You're just limiting yourself.
It's better than nothing and being teased for being alone.
I deserve one. Doesn't mean I will receive one.
True. But having a girlfriend isn't everything. You'd be much better off on your own than with a girl who is cheating on you. And there will be other girls, I promise.
Yeah it is. Because it's fun to go on dates and such and it's always feels good to have someone text you when you wake up.
True, but if you know she's cheating on you, is it really worth the pain?
But who else is going to love me if I were to leave her?
You'll find a better girl.
I know I'm a good person, but no other girl is gonna see that.
well we're not all blind :) if she's the one for you she'll see
How am I entertaining?
Insulting robots is fun. They have no feelings.
What are you talking about?
I want to do something fun, but can't decide what would be good
You are crazy. Dump the bitch.
Ok... I believe she shows me enough love.
It's fucked up
clearly, I hope you can work on that
I will once girls stop making fun of me and act like I'm some kind of poison.
don't wait for anybody to do that, work on your self for you.
They don't want to touch me. They make fun of me because I'm not strong enough. They would say "lol he can't even bench 135! (Name of a guy who's stronger than me) can do that 80 times!"
Yeah, kinda lost my self respect when girls tease me everyday.
Build it back up