I started talking to a coworker of mine and he asked me if I wanted to go bowling we went bowling and it was fun I had a great time I felt like we were just friends hanging out. After bowling we went to go eat at a pizza place where we talked about our career goals. When we were done eating we went to watch a movie it was an action movie and obviously we didn't talk and I honestly didn't even look at him once because I actually real;y wanted to watch this movie. Once we were done we said goodbye and hugged as friends there was no awkwardness it was more like casual. At work today though he came to me and said he had great time last night and that he would really like for us to do it again of course I said yes because I do have fun with him but I like him platonically. How do I know if this was a friendly date or an actual date?