If its not about a serious relationship and you want only to make out... I would say pass. It's basically like going to a barbecue and eating only a sallad.
but im worries that he is expecting that it is going to happen with him at some point, when it´s not. Even if we take it slow
Then do not lead him on. Let him go. That's no way to treat a person.
he knows it is not serious, he only talks to me when he wants to do something. And im okay with going out and making out, i can use a distraction. he's gonna be gone of the country in a couple months. he told me he wanted to sleep with me to what i said nothing. Im not treating him badly, i just dont want to have sex with him, only go out.
Thats what i meant. Would you want to go to the most amazing meat-filled barbecue only to eat a sallad? Of course not. Tell him sex will never happen. i guarantee you won't hear from. him again.
okay i will tell him that and see what happens
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it is not using a guy, it is just going out and not having sex. It is going out to talk, kiss and have a good time.
no, that's called using a man
same way its called using a girl to go out to get sex and then leaving to another country. Its just a matter of having a good time.
yeah, and did i do that to you, NOstop generalizing. women over generalize on this site. get over it. you got hurt, big deal.. but you don't go and start hurting men, just cause you got hurt. that makes you no better
First of all, im not generalizing And second of all i am not hurting anyone. It is just that i dont want to hook up with someone i dont see myself being with in the future
uh ya, you areand yes, you are
so just don't do this. just dont
how am i generalizing?And how am i hurting someone?
you think i do that, by saying "men"and because you're basically saying i want to have a sexless relationship. that's not how a relationship works. you got hurt, that doesn't mean you go out and start hurting others
if i said men I don´t remember it, i was just talking about this one guy.and i don´t want to have a sexless relationship, this is not a relationship, it is just texting each other only on the days we are going out, and never talking until we are going out again. It is just going out to have a good time
thats called a relationshipand yes, you meant "men"just dont do this. i swear to god
the one that said men first was you, please read everything again and you will realize i am not generalizing. Maybe you are mad at someone or something and you misinterpreted what i was saying and answered angrily.
nope not at all. i get what you're exactly saying, and you are just pissing me off now. sorry i ever replied. i don't sugar coat, OK?
I think you are confused dude. I am sorry you are so pissed off but you need to chill haha
no, im not confused. you just need to not do this, ok?
what is what i need to not do