I have a problem... whenever I get close to a guy, and I start to feel something for him, I begin pushing him away. I have no idea why I do this, but I hate it. I really like this guy I'm talking to. He's the nicest guy I've ever met, and he's my idea of the perfect guy. I just can't stop myself from starting to get closed off and I beginning to push him away. Someone, please, help me.