So the guy I like said he would be with me if he was not trying to reunite his family. Since im insecure I have a hard time telling if he is being honest. I just assumed he was lying to make me feel better. I always assume this even when people pay me compliments. I think they are either lying or saying nice things because they have an ulterior motive. Im trying to work on my self esteem but in the meantime it's difficult to tell if people actually like me or not.