I know I have a lot going for me as I'm super fit as I workout 5 days a week, I'm 5'8 and have long hair. I have a great career and am financially set. I have a jokey personality but and shy and quiet when I don't know people. I'm kind to everyone. So spelling out the facts I should be confident but I'm not. I'm probably a 9 or 10 on the attractive scale accordingly to guys I've talked to and other ladies randomly that I don't know come up and say how pretty I am.