That's an excellent point.
Yeah, I'm interested in dating him but a long term relationship wouldn't work.
How old is he?
23 And I work with him
Well that is a little two young for me. When I was in my late 40s I dated guys in their early 30s. It was mostly just a physical relationship.
This one guy who was about 15 years younger than me wanted a serious relationship. His mom was only a few years older than me. I told him she liable to fall over if he brought me to a family get together.
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The young man in question is very shy. Got any suggestions on how to get him to call/txt me?
Well... Maybe, make the first move or find excuses to call/meet?
I've already given him my # and asked him to call me, but he never did. Someone said he might be too shy. What if I invite him for coffee after work (we work at same place). We are both coffee drinkers.
Honestly If you tell him you think he's cute or you like him then things might go somewhere.He may be DEATHLY afraid of rejection.
I was lime that Back in the day.
Seriously? You think I should tell him I think he's cute?
Well... Use you own judgment for this one. I'm just suggesting. But I know that it would be a HUGE confidence boost if a pretty girl were to tell me that.Personally, yes I think you should tell him.
I'm not really concerned with what other's think so much as I'm having a hard time moving the relationship from flirting to dating with him. Probably because he's so young & shy. Any suggestions?
as far as shy guys are concerned, you'll have to keep making the moves instead of waiting for them.
That's what I'm thinking. I've already given him my # and he hasn't called me. I was thinking of inviting to coffee after work, we're both coffee drinkers. What do you think?
sounds like a plan👍
That's just it. He's only 23 and I'm 50. He's also very shy and it took him like a yr to talk to me. We work together & see each other every day.
Wow,,, that's really shy it seems to me that you are going to have to make all the first moves probably in everything that you plan for the two of you
Sounds like a lot of work.
try just telling him that you want him to be yours couldn't hurt
What if the guy is shy and inexperienced? Should I make a move?
Yes i would say you should make the move..