How do I "fake it" or trick my brain into thinking i'm confident? I've never been that way.
Smile, keep eye contact (this balance may be the hardest part), be enthusiastic. Stay slightly indifferent the whole time. The key is slightly, to indifferent and you'll seem like an ass.
Where will I find it?
It's hard for me to say, because I don't know the answer either. You are young, you are still learning. If you were to ask me "How can I fix myself so I can talk to girls and they don't feel awkward because of my behavior?" I would say that you need to let go of this mentality that you are not attractive or that your are not smart and can never find a girl friend. No one likes this sort of behavior and people who act this way, get made fun of all the time behind their backs. They are seen as weak and that's why have so much trouble finding relationships.You need to show the people you are interested in that you are confident in yourself. I can't fix your mind set right now, but this is one thing I have noticed that I believe is the reason why you are having trouble finding a girlfriend. You feel helpless and you seem to have 0 confidence in yourself.
I have some confidence just not in dating. But I see what you are saying.
Yeah I know I need not to be shy, but I am.
Confidence is the key in that one my friend
I know, they say confidence is sexy
It is and without it the relationship will be shaky
Yeah It's why I have been single my whole life
Work on it ik now it's not easy good luck 😃
It's my mind
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