I am a 25 year old female dating a 19 year old. We are not the perfect couple, but we do love each other. His mother have a problem with our age difference and says he needs to date someone closer to his age. She have no other reason we should not be together other than this and it is beginning to ruin our relationship. Please help!
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I suppose that's proof enough that the 19 year old boy is not yet a man.if he was, he could easily tell the mom to bugger off. Anyway, age would play a part in relationships like yours where is not the age that is the factor, but the maturity of the person. For example, you could be 40 and he could be 34, but by then, there would be no mom to be bothering as he would be considered a grown up man by then; of you could be 19 and he could be 13, and well, as you know, a 13 year old and a 19 year old see the world differently. Anyway, I'm of the opinion that age matters only when the two people are not mature enough for each other. And my bet is that in your case, the 19 year old has yet to do a lot of catching up. And as much as he wants to say that he is all mature, believe me---my world was totally diffrent when I was 25 and 19. Just think of yourself----are you the same person when you were 19, or have your experiences made you a bit wiser? Good luck.0