I have been talking to this girl for awhile now. It started when my friend's girlfriend started to hook us up. We hung out one day and it went great. Since then, we talked every now and then and I started to believe she liked me. I found out that she did actually like me when my friends girlfriend asked her if she did, and she answered yes. After that, we started talking a lot more and flirting became more frequent. We ended up hanging out just the two of us. We held hands at the movie and ended I kissed her that night also. She sent me a text on my way home saying how she had a great time. We kept talking after that day. She is very busy because she goes to ride horses and is practicing/preparing for a horse show coming up. This happened Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday. We flirted a lot and I asked her to hang like everyday. We started a habit of texting each other in the morning and saying good morning to each other. When she had to go to the barn, we usually stopped texting. When she was done, she would always text me back and we would text until she went riding horses or she fell asleep. On Wednesday, she didn't text me in the morning, not until I chatted with her on Facebook. I initiated it. We hit it off on Facebook then I had to leave and she told me to text her. So I did on my way out the door. She stopped replying because she had to go riding. She Facebook chatted with me later, and initiated it. Our conversation went well. Then she stopped replying. I figured she went riding. So later that night I sent her a text saying "hey what's up". While I was waiting for a reply I noticed she went on Facebook for like a minute before signing off. I went to bed that night without a text. I woke up the next morning without a text either. I sent her a text later that morning saying hey what's up. Without a reply I saw her on Facebook. After waiting for awhile I finally sent her a text saying hey. She did not reply to that or my text. As the day progressed I saw her on Facebook several time but with no response. It has now been two days since I heard from her. I had an incident like this before and this girl told me recently how If I gave her more room it would have been better and that she ignored my texts too, but still liked me.
So if anyone can give me advice on what to do, you would help me out so much. Thank you.
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You are really young obviously. You are wayyy to available which is a turn off to even the most easy going women. She is a nice girl but she IS trying to get away from you by saying she's busy so you'll leave her alone and won't feel bad about yourself for the fact that she really didn't want to be bothered with you.
Its like this budhist saying "If you care for only one flower every moment you will suffocate it rather you should plant a lot of seeds and tend to them all." And not all flowers are girls.
You f***ed up all us men do the best thing now is to not beat yourself up about because everyone does it. Just don't center your social life around one girl at any moment any any given time unless she's your wife lol.1