Prostitution VS Dating.. Which is better?

With prostitution, the guy gets what he wants, and the girl gets what she wants. 1. There's no game playing, you never think to yourself "does he or she like me?"- women get the money and men get the sex. Everyone wins. 2. With a woman you date, she's not required to do monthly STD and aids checks. Like a legal prostitute. 3. With a prostitute is there a chance if the sex is bad, or the "deal" goes bad that she gets HALF of ALL of your money. No. 4. Its defiantly cheaper. An average prostitute in Nevada costs about 300 bucks on average for sex. An average date costs about 100 bucks, and most women don't want to put out until the 3rd date AT LEAST. And even then its not a certainty. Cost of gas= 20 bucks for the drive to her house to pick her up, to the movie,and to the restaurant and back to her house and then back to yours. Cost of movie= 12 bucks X 2= 24 bucks, rounded down to 20. That's 40 bucks not including popcorn and candy. So that's 60 bucks. Now include the cost of the meal at a "decent". Because we all know she's going to think your a cheap loser if you take her to taco bell.- unlike a whore where you don't have to pay anything except for what you get in return. So you figure 20 bucks a person.. that's 40 bucks. This is not including candy, gifts, or flowers. 60+40=100 bucks.. and there you have it. 3 dates=300 bucks. Suppose it was even guaranteed that she's has to put out on the 3rd date making it "equal" even then its like putting her vagina on lay away, and you have to wait. Most people also don't date consecutively one day after the other either. 5. Most of the time women in marriages "put out" to get their husbands to do chores or anything like that. Its been said that most women are nothing more than closeted prostitutes because after all how many women here would date a man who's broke? How many women here will accept a man who doesn't pay for the date? If you won't accept a man who takes you to taco bell for a date, then all it means is that you are a hooker who is just haggling over the price. The only difference between prostitution and dating is emotional connection and love. Both of which are free. So, unless you want men to date you, stop acting like whores, because were just going to go there instead of dating you. Because at least with them its a sure thing. So which do you think is better.
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This is prostitution vs dating, not prostitution vs relationships. Obviously getting the sex for free from a girlfriend is better. That's why its vs dating, not relationships.
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  • Well, it seems to me that you're assuming the only goal men have is to have sex, and that all women expect men to pay for everything. Both of these things are untrue. If you're only interested in sex, then maybe a prostitute is a good option for you. As you've mentioned, a relationship offers additional things, such as an emotional connection, love, companionship, good conversation, a partnership when it comes to finances, housework, child-rearing (depending on how serious your relationship is).

    In all of the relationships I've had, I do not expect my partner to pay for everything. In the beginning of the relationship, we usually go dutch, or one person pays for one date, the other pays for the next. When the relationship becomes more serious, we pretty much always take turns paying for dates (since its easier than splitting the bill). Now that I live with my partner, we split rent, and he might pay some bills and I'll pay others, so its essentially even (i.e. I pay for internet/cable, he pays for our cell phones). Things don't have to be exactly 50/50--we kind of play it by ear, depending on who has more money. When I was in school, he paid the majority of the bills. When he was in school, I did. I make more money than him, but that doesn't matter to us--we're building a life together, so essentially any money we make is "our" money (we still have the freedom to spend our own money on the things we want, but if it's a large purchase, we make the decision about it together). This has been typical of all my relationships.

    To answer your questions: Yes, I will date a man who is broke (as long as its not simply because he's lazy and won't get a job). Yes, I will date a man who doesn't pay for the dates. And I'm cool if he wants to take me to taco bell--I think it's unreasonable to expect someone to spend more than their means, and if I'm dating someone, it's because I want to spend time with them, not because I want them to take me out to the most expensive places.

    As far as sex is concerned, we don't believe that sex is a commody that needs to be earned. We have sex with each other because we want to. We both have healthy sex drives, so we have sex fairly often. I don't "reward" my partner for doing chores around the house--it's OUR home, so we both do the chores that need to be done. I don't withhold sex as a form of "punishment". Sex is completely separate from those things.

    I think the reason why a lot of women want to wait a bit before having sex isn't because they want you to pay for or "earn" it, but rather, they don't want to be treated like a prostitute. They want a guy who actually likes them and is interested in a relationship with them, not just taking them on enough dates so that the woman is obliged to have sex with him. They also realize that, while it's a completely unfair double standard, a lot of guys lose respect for a girl, or decide they only want to have sex with her (not a relationship) if she has sex with them "too soon

    • I like how you put this qualifier in there "(as long as its not simply because he's lazy and won't get a job)." If you don't date a guy because he's broke, it doesn't matter "why" he's broke, you still are not dating him because he's broke, not because he's lazy. Being broke and being lazy are 2 completely different things. I know a few millionaires that are complete lazy slobs, in fact that's WHY they are lazy.

    • From dating hundreds of women and sleeping with even more, most of them do not have the mindset that you do. You are in the minority. In fact in dealing with tons of women, they feel that when a man spends money on them it makes them feel like a "woman". (their words not mine.) They feel treated like a "princess". (their words not mine.) And they feel that if a man doesn't spend money on them, they dont' feel that the guy likes them. In fact the more he spends the more he must like them.

    • The problem with making a guy wait for sex, does 2 things. 1. Makes the man feel that she's withholding something from him, which in turn makes him feel that he has to "earn" it.. 2. Makes him feel that the woman doesn't like sex as much as he does, and therefore makes him like her less. (because ultimately most men want a woman who has the same, if not greater sex drive than he does.) The last thing we want is a woman who doesn't like sex. Because then sex is just doing the man a favor.

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  • I understand where you are coming from but I think there are a few things that don't add up to me.

    1) If you use the logic that all women are closet prostitutes, wanting to exchange sex for money, you can use the same logic to say all men are really just closest John's wanting to pay women for sex. So why be upset? In this logic all women want money for sex and all men want to give their money for sex so everyone wins.

    2) Dating and prostitution aren't really comparable because the desired result is different. Dating isn't just used to get sex. It's also used to develop relationships. Meaning the people who are dating don't just want sex. If someone wants just sex they go for just hook ups and hopefully that will only cost you a drink. Comparing dating and prostitution is like comparing a restaurant making your food to having your mom make your food. Sure you may have to pay more money in the long run for mom (like taking care of her when she is older) but there are a few things mom has to offer over a restaurant.

    3) You are talking about prostitution like it is a good thing but then you use it as a slur against women by saying they act like "whores". You can't talk up prostitution as a legitimate thing and then insult people who act like those in the profession. It's like saying slavery is a great thing but then saying child labor is like slavery and it's completely awful. If prostitution is good, then it's completely OK for anyone to act like a prostitute. Even if she doesn't say she is. You can't have it both ways. You can't say prostitutes are good woman but women that act like them are bad.

    4) Prostitution would be a valid alternative if most people didn't care that the person that sleeps with them doesn't like them. Prostitutes aren't humanitarians. They think their John's are morons that they can sexual manipulate. One of my friends grew up in a neighborhood that had lots of prostitutes in it. He doesn't use prostitutes. He is actually a hopeless romantic who wants love and commitment after growing up seeing what the other option is. You aren't going to see that on some documentary cause they want the John's to come back to the whore house. But prostitutes spend a lot of time laughing at their John's. Prostitutes actually have really, really big mouths (no pun intended). Some of the most shocking stuff I've ever learned was from a girl who was a former prostitute who was talking about her John's. And she wasn't retelling the stories with admiration.

    • 1. Obviously we don't "Want" to pay for sex., If that was true, why would we be "upset" about it.- your logic is flawed. 2. Nope, your only partially correct. Both your mom and the resturant have one thing in common, your mom doenst go... you know what? Your not getting fed tonight. And the restaruant doesn't do that either. How would you feel if you paid before your meal and they told you to leave without getting your money back OR eating. So there's no comparison. 3. Refer to my first example.

    • 4. Most people don't care about the person your dating either. How much do you care about the person whom you don't really know? he could be an axe murderer for all you know. Women talk and women in general have big mouths, it doesn't take a professional job as a whore to give you that. And by the way women have bigger mouths than men in general too, they talk about sex and other crap WAYYYY more than men. SO that argument is pointless.

    • 1. Well yeah my logic is flawed cause I was using your logic. Women are telling you over & over again that they don't want money for sex but you still believe they do. So using that same way of arguing, I can say a man secretly wants to pay for sex so that's why he buys women things. 2. The comparison doesn't work because you keep insisting that sex is the only thing men want in exchange for money. If that's how your mind is, then yes, the comparison doesn't work. But most men

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  • Correction, in prostitution the girl gets what she NEEDS, she doesn't "want" you she needs your money for her house and sh*t.

    I would date a man who was broke, then again I'd make my own money but even so if I didn't I would as long as I loved him.

    I think dating is better, emotional connections and friendship bring more into a person's life than just sex. I mean who the hell feels "refreshed" and altogether "wholesome" after screwing a prostitute?

    And just for the record, most women don't act like whores. If anything the men can't stop their raging hormones so much that they go to the whores. Not our problem if you can't get a decent women for real sex. Oh I'm sorry I just read down the comments and realized you're gay. . .that's even nastier considering the increased risk in HIV. Oh well, my point is that prostitution doesn't really do anything but a moment of pure horny rage, so I vote dating as better even if it isn't statistically more cost effective, then again you'd have to figure how many times you go to a prostitute in a certain amount of time vs in how many times you go out in dating for a complete assessment.

    • In prostitution the man gets what he NEEDS, he doesn't "want" her, he needs her sex to satisfy his needs. Statistically, 90% of the time dating does not end in emotional connection OR friendship. I seriously doubt that all the men you've dated ended up friends or boyfriends. So that completely and utterly destroys that argument. And women do in fact act like whores, if you consider not a single one of them would date a man with no ambition whatsoever, who also never attained a single penny.

    • Prostitution is more cost effective and at least you get something out of it, more than you do with dating where statistically most people go their separate ways, and he's out 100 bucks on average.

    • No a man doesn't NEED sex. If a man doesn't have sex, he;s not going to die from it; I also never said he wanted the girl either, it's true he just wants sex. Also for cost efficiency the average prostitute would cost around $300 a session where as you put it so does one date. So you'd have to multiply the cost by the amount of times you go on a date and the amount of times you go to the prostitute which would vary for each customer I'd presume, so you'd need the real numbers for that statement.

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  • Firstly, I don't think you can seperate "dating" from "relationships", because most normal people date with the intention of getting into a relationship.

    The shallow, insecure people you're talking about may not be thinking long term, so in their case, yes, a prostitute will probably be better.

    It really sounds like you're just using this question to spit out a bitter rant against women. You ask like 3 questions in one.

    1. How many women will accept a man that doesn't pay for a date?



    Before my girlfriend was my g/f, more often than not she paid. She wouldn't even hear of me paying, I had to sneak the check to pay when I could.

    2. Women "put out" to get men to do chores.

    No, this is just wrong. Women put out because they enjoy sex just like we do. It's a natural thing - like eating or sleeping, we enjoy those things because they're hard-wired into us. Yes, I know it's shocking to think that women have desires as well, but get over it. They're human too.

    3.

    What's funny is the first date my girlfriend and I went on was for shakes at Jack in the Box and then a walk in the park. 3x of that would total somewhere around $18. Further, my girlfriend lives about 50 miles from me and it doesn't cost me $20 round trip. What the hell are you driving, an aircraft carrier?

    4. Dating is more expensive.

    I have NEVER NEVER NEVER been on a date that cost $100, and I've been dating for what, 17 years now. Even factoring in driving and what not. Never once. So, your highly generalized math is rediculous. I've dated girls when I was completely flat broke living at my mom's place and I've dated girls since I've started making cash and I have my own flat. Your argument might be true for you, but for most of the guys I know, they can get dates whether they have a fiver in their pocket or a swimming pool full of cursed gold coins, doesn't matter.

    5. "She gets half your money".

    Now you're talking about marriage, not dating, when you specifically said you're talking about dating, not relationships. Stop changing your argument to make your rediculous point.

    Bottom line, if your goal is just sex, sex, sex, then yes, getting a prostitute or a GFE makes sense. If your goal is spending time with another human being, regardless of whether you get sex or not, then dating is the answer, cos a prostitute won't give a crap about you other than the money you're throwing at her. You're just as well off buying a blow-up doll - you're basically paying someone to let you use their body to masturbate, that's how much emotional connection you're getting out of it. More power to you, in that instance.

    • 1. Interesting how some people lie just to try and win an argument. 2. Women don't enjoy sex as much as men do, this is provably false. Sex drive is measured by testosterone in both men and women. Its quantifiable. Men clearly have more testosterone than women. They physically can enjoy sex, but clearly its not as much. 3. Learn to read, the cost of the average date is clearly explained. A WOMAN doesn't give a crap about you other than the money you're throwing at her.

    • 4.Your average date for most men is going to cost this much money. Some more, some less. Going on quality dates is going to cost you that much. Anything less than that, your average woman is going to think you're cheap. The studies are out there.

      "I was on my way to class today, listening to the radio, when the hosts started talking about how much the average date costs. Apparently it's $85, give or take."

      link

      Suck it.

    • 5: "Firstly, I don't think you can seperate "dating" from "relationships", because most normal people date with the intention of getting into a relationship"-- that's what YOU said. So ill go ahead and use your own ridiculous argument against you. Most normal people date with the intention of doing it long term. And most normal people's ideal long term relationship is marriage.

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  • Prostitution is cheeper and girls are more honest about their sexuality.

    In the other hand dating involves a lot of bush*t, judgement, misstreatment and humilliation from the girl until she decides to have sex with you which at this point you are already massively turn off.

    So prostitution is better.

    • A-men.

    • Wow really? I for one want to apologize to all the ladies out there on the behalf of all men this person is obviously VERY young and VERY stupid and I wouldn't be very surprised if he was Soulless. I for one love that I can take a girl out to the movies and enjoy her company these guys obviously don't care about things like that.

    • Mr real REALLY never gets laid.. for real.

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  • I guess if you JUST want the sex and don't want somebody to love you then the prostitute is your better choice. Then when you get to the point in your life that you want someone to grow old with and someone that will love you and be around unconditionally then get a relationship. Simple!

    • Wow this is not about just wanting sex. Although many women.. if not most women think that sex is all men want anyways. But that's not the topic of discussion. The point is what is better prostitution vs dating. NOT sex vs dating. Or even sex vs relationships. Ill give you a hint, what if you could pay an "escort" to make you feel good without leading to sex? or she gives the man somthing like say... a gold bar. Whereas in dating men get nothing for the 100 bucks they spend on average.

    • If people really had such a simple set of options!

    • Asker 36-45, if you are a gay male, are you speaking of straight women from your personal experience? No casual date needs to cost more than $25 when the cost is split on a movie. You have this $100 baseline that is not realistic. There are lots of free, low cost dates that are enjoyable: a museum, a park, a free concert, a music club date... No man ever has to pay for everything. Why are you harping on this old-fashioned dating technique of man always pays. If you go on a good Dutch date both of you will feel good to have shared each other's company and no one's pocket will be picked. If a man gets "nothing" after a date, and I mean, enjoying a woman's company, personality... then it's time to stop dating. Dating is not a means to an end alone. You don't date to simply get sex. If that's all you want, pick up people at bars or buy a prostitute. Dating's about more than sex for men and women. If everything else is good, sex, with healthy people, usually enters the picture. But one day at a time. Buying a woman for sex alone feels pretty empty to me. If you only need a canal to jack off in, you don't need a date.

  • If all a guy wants is sex, then you shouldn't be dating and pretending like you want a relationship to begin with. Have a drunken one-night stand when you can get them or shell out the money for a prostitute if you live near legalized prostitution, or masturbate.

    When you are actually ready to meet someone and have a relationship, well join the club with the rest of us, men and women alike, who get frustrated with dating and get tired of dating people we don't hit it off with and do things that drive us crazy. Stop spending $100 on dates in hopes of getting laid. Dating should be about meeting someone you would want a relationship with, not about counting the $$ and meet-ups necessary to have sex. If you go on a date or two and there is just no connection there, don't go on date three. Save your $$. Look for someone new until you find the one that works for you.

    • This is not about just wanting sex. Its about getting something instead of getting nothing. And no woman wants a man who doesn't pay for dates. They call them "cheap" I know I have tons of friends who are girls and they say that, AND they say they would never date a man with no money and no ambition, which is the same thing. 100 bucks per date is the average MINIMUM cost for a date.

    • There is no way to go on a date or several dates and guarantee that the girl will fall for you and have a relationship with you. I don't really get how you think spending money on dates should equate to them giving you something as intimate as sex. I agree, for you, that you should find other ways to fulfill your sexual needs. Dating is just not the way to do that.

    • How about a return on my investment? If im going to spend a ton of money on you on multiple dates, what the hell am i getting out of it, if not sex? The pleasure of your company? I could hang out with my other guy friends and not spend a dime and typically have a much better time, without the nerves, without the worry, and know im not being judged, im already accepted. WHeres my money going? And lets suppose im paying for your company. Shouldn't my company be worth something? Apparently not.

  • If sex, is all you want on a date, why not just be honest about it with the girl, instead of stringing her along and spending your money? You're just as guilty. Because they way you're explaining this, is you just want sex out of a date. No emotional attachment or interest in the girl. So if sex is what you seek, get a hooker or be honest with your date. Quit complaining on how expensive a date is.

  • oh lord your point of view is so strange. You sir seem to have a very negative view of women. This isn't so much of a question as it is a rant. Maybe its you that needs to start looking for different kinds of women, and check your attitude towards them when you wonder why they aren't all gushy towards you. Users get used, its the nature of karma.

    • Thats like saying people have a negative view of criminals, therefore we shouldn't lock them away in prisons. Do women demand that strangers pay for them? Yes. Do they have to give anything in return? NO. Did they deserve anything to get that money from men? No. Are they entitled to it? NO. Do men always have to pay regardless if the woman has sex or doesn't have sex with the man? YES. Just because its negative, doesn't mean these are not FACTS.

    • The fact that you think this way reaffirms my point, you are obviously only dating a very limited quality of woman. Most of the dates I have been on we take turns paying or go dutch. Though I would probably never date you since you seem to want but one thing in return. All I ask for of my dates is good company. Sometimes, shock, its fun to go on a date where no money is spent. If your materialistic nature can wrap its head around that.

    • No it doesn't. These are facts, not a way of thinking. I think that 1+1=2... therefore I have a possibility of being wrong? NOPE. I would definitely never date you. And I'm sure he pays first when he goes out with you. And BTW if you are going to tell me a bunch of lies and say "oh I would date a broke man with no ambition(which means money) an no goals, (which means money) and whos lazy and refuses to get a job..(which means money) You are lying.

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  • Prostituion.

    The only reason men get into relationships is to get sex for free.

    • thats a sad outlook on life, not all guys are in it for sex and if that's all its about they are better off with a prostitute

    • Got to love white knights

  • It's too bad that you feel this way.

    There is a lot more to relationships than sex. And I would hope that someone who is special to you would mean more than how much you spend on them.

    But... I do hope that you choose prostitutes over dating, because you're a chauvinist and - though no woman deserves that - at least sex workers expect it.

  • So disgusted. Completely disgusted.

    • Yeah I'm sure you hear that a lot from men who look at you.

  • Which do I think is better? Well, I can't cuddle with a prostitute. Well I can, but that costs extra =/.

    No really, this question is really funny to me.

  • Not everyone spends money on dates, not everyone has sex on dates.

    SOME people like each other &continue dating the same person.

    Or at least actually want to get to know the person they are dating, even if its just once.

    For some people THAT is the purpose.

    Yea well, if sex is your aim for dating, then now you are correct.

    DATING FOR SEX PROSTITUTION FOR SEX- not much difference at all .

    Sounds like you got it all worked out.

    Have fun drive, fuc* safe, be safe & leave all the 'non' - sociopaths a lone -- The world will be a better place for it :)

    • MOST people spend money on dates MOST people DONT have sex on the first date. - Of course you don't see a problem with that. MOST people don't like each other and continue dating the person. For MOST people, that's what happens. If you want to bring up RETARDED examples and EXCEPTIONS to PROVE The RULE, ill just say. Not everyone doesn't marry a prostitute, SOME people actually get married to a prostitute they have sex with. For some people THAT is the purpose. Your examples are equally stupid.

    • Wow. Where do YOUR 'most people' live ?- You got statistics on that place? Hey buddy. You are the one who compared a date to prostitution,so the guy does not waste money ona bad or no fuc* or charges/ cost too much. You are getting mad at me ,because you feel guilty for wanting to have a'sure inexpensive fuc*'. I'm not judging. I never daid you had a problem. I just said stay with other peole who are mre concerned about finance & f***in* than the people side of people- the conscious part :) PEACE ;)

    • Most people spend money on dates and MOST people DONT have sex on the first date. If you don't know that is a FACT then something is seriously wrong with your brain. Its a statistic that is true WORLDWIDE and has been true FOREVER. Im not mad I just think your retarded. I mean who the hell doesn't know that.

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  • Sex for sex's sake? Yes, pros are better... even better is online p*rn...yeah you do it yourself but it's completely free!

    So what was the question, really? Because it can't be that simple...

  • There's SO much more to enjoy with girls than just sex. Girls, I can assure you that we're not all like this. I for one think prostitution is disgusting. :)

    • Your right, and way to kiss a girls ass. Kissing women's asses is the best way to get you laid. For sure. (rolls eyes) And this is not dating vs sex, its dating vs prostitution. there is a difference.

    • Thank you letmethinkaboutit.

  • well coming from someone who isn't old enough to buy a prostitute and a person who wouldn't want a prstitiute anyway, I think dates for me are enjoyable for both me and the girl imm with. I'm not really interested in sex, I just want to hang out with a really cool girl who I have romantic feelings for. I don't expect her to put out after any date, I think when we are both ready is when she can "put out" but until then being with a pretty girl is enough for me and I have better things to spend money on than sex with someone I don't know or love. but that's just me

    • And I really care about a womans personality too. And I think that men who think fat women are gross are appalling. And I i hate men who objectify women, after all they are human beings god dammit. Im not interested in sex either, I'm going to wait until marriage, I'm just saving myself for the right girl you know.. relationships just can't be all about sex. And men and women are equals!! (I just threw up in my mouth.)

    • Btw guys that talk like this are (nice guys) who never get laid, and its obvious he's never had pussy.

    • I just call them like I see them.

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  • If your dating experience involves bullshit, judgement, mistreatment and humiliation from women, maybe you should stop dating the same types of women. Find dates in alternative areas. The gym, museums, coffeehouses, at adult classes, in hiking, sailing, biking groups. There are diverse ways to meet nice people. Throw a broader net.

  • After reading some comments, I got your point and yes, if we compare things just plain and simple, prostitution might look better than dating. But still, having a girlfriend beats prostitution, just because of the time you spend with your girlfriend. Let's say you live with your girlfriend and/or lives near her, you guys can have sex like what? 3-4 days a week if not everyday (I will not get deep in this subject because it involves people's sex drive and other stuff too..) but yea, lets say 3 times a week, then it gets cheaper than getting a hooker. Imagine you getting a hooker 3 times a week? It would be 900 bucks in just one week...

    My conclusion: prostitution might look better than dating, but we need the dates to actually get a girlfriend and solve the problem.

    (obviously dating/relationships have more things involved than just sex, but I think you guys will get the point...)

    • Having a girlfriend is better than prostitution, obviously. That's not the question.

  • if I knew a guy went out with a prostitute I would definitely not date him...for hygeinic reasons...oh burn...I'm 'sorry'.

    • That's pretty arrogant assuming I would date you. BTW I'm gay. and I would NEVER date you... oh I'm sorry. "burn."

  • Anyone who has to pay for sex or does it by choice is pathetic to Mr. I don't think less of them but I do see it as pathetic.

    • Great. Then dont get mad when a man never pays for dates. Especially when most of them are only paying for it... to eventually get sex. Lets face it, if we wanted to "hang out" with someone and not get sex, they could do it with guy friends.

    • Anyone who asks for a date is naturally expected to pay. Why wouldn't he pay? I don't care if there is a guy who doesn't want to pay for dates... but we're not going to be dating anymore. And I agree with the rest... because most who do that are typically immature or doing it for selfish gain. But mature men who actually want relationships will do it for that aforementioned reason. :) Have fun with prostitutes. ^_^

    • Wait. You're GAY? Assuming this IS about you, I would think that you would have an EASIER time to get men to sleep with you. That makes it even more pathetic... IF this is about you. If not, good on you.

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  • Not taking this topic seriously, lets do a slight economic analysis..

    Prostitute

    sex= £1000 (cash)

    GF

    sex + loyality > £1000 (dates..)

    Everyguy is willing to have sex with anygirl; If we are to put a monetary figure on loyality, e,g the cost of raising a child... we would realize that its cheaper to have a Girlfriend than a prostitute..

    Even with DNA tests, the price of loyality is still high because of our ego and need to be the "only one she is having sex.. with"

    • Right, its economically and better overall to have a girlfriend than a prostitute, but this isn't about girlfriends vs prostitutes, its dating vs prostitutes. There is a big difference. Plus lets hope the sex is better since having sex with someone you actually care about is actually a hell of a lot better than someone whos a stranger.

    • Yeah but for obvious reasons you can't have a girlfriend without dating....

    • Yes but you can date without a girlfriend. That's the problem.

  • In the modern US, I"d say the difference between dating and protituton is very slight; the more honest women admit that..

    • I must agree... it's a very slight difference.

  • When you look at it closely, when you're dating a woman you are indirectly paying for sex.

    You figure, 3 dates of dinner, movies, shows, and on the thrid date the girl sleeps with you. Add it up and you spent maybe 200-400 to hang out with this person three times so you could get laid.

    Valentine's day: you buy chocolates, jewelry, dinner, whatever else, and for what? To get laid.

    The negative with hookers is that they are openly dirty pigs. Higher risk of catching an STD or even worse AIDS. You might get what you want and even more.

    My friend, I suggest you invest into a rubber doll.

    Cheers!

  • Well I have never or never will pay a chick for sex, however I do see where you coming from. In the long run dating is better, because your not going to spend 300 every time you see your girlfriend, and say you see a hooker 4 times a month, that's already over a grand right there, so why waist your money on sex when you could have saved a grand and bought something you wanted?

    • Again, that's girlfriend and not dating. Dating there are no guarentees, many men can easily spend 300 bucks on 3 different first dates and get nothing out of them. You are also assuming that she's going to put out.

    • True but before I had a girlfriend I had sex with chicks on the first date all the time, and if a chick will go on at least 3 dates with you, chances are she likes you, and I can't think of one time where I spent $300 on dates, with the same chick or even with 3 different chicks. So I still say dating is better.

    • 1. There still are no guarantees that women will put out on the first date. 2. Women are told not to put out on the first date. 3. Most women don't put out on the first date, and just because you and I have had the experience that some women do, its not what most men's reality is.

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